We were best friends. I told him I wanted more. At first, he was really sweet and lovey dovey and he paid loads of attention to me, even though I was never his girlfriend.
These days, he'll still be nice, but he's kind of edged on and keeps on telling me how much he likes these other guys and girls (he's bi), but he keeps saying things like we're gonna live together when we're older and have kids and stuff.
I've TRIED so hard to get over him and start to like others, but I can't and when he talks about how he likes other people, he makes me so jealous, and I've told him this.
I really don't know what to do anymore.. Please help?
2007-01-26 05:17:51 · 10 answers · asked by Hitomi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe hes just not ready to be committeed. maybe thats why he likes so many other people. just talk to him and see whats going to happen. if he really is going to end up with you. ask him that. but, if not. just move on. no point in hanging on to a person like that. he probably just wants to have fun right now. but it seems like you want something more and serious.
2007-01-26 05:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by j yanks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. He obviously is experimenting in his life and he's alloud to, everyone should. The most that's gonna happen is your gonna get hurt. Especially whens he is interested in men. I can't see being with a man who also sleeps with men. If you can deal with that, than more power to you. I'll be always wondering if the guy he just left with is his buddy or his lover. I would leave that alone and find yourself a man that will give you 100% of his attention.
2007-01-26 13:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by SexyMommy2B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI!! I think you should try not to think of hI'm on that level, really. See, he's bisexual so maybe he just thinks of you as a friend. 2 years ago I had a friend who was homosexual and we just talked about boys together. (Which was really funny) Maybe your just a really good friend to him. Hey, im really good at giving advice so if you need me for anything else my email is peanut200482@yahoo.com. Like I was saying, if he's bi then if you guys did have a relationship it would work out. What would you guy's children think if they knew that their father loved you and another man?? Just think about it. Move on, there'll be other men for you. Everyone was meant for someone. But if you think he's your soul mate, go for it! Hey, you only live one time!!
2007-01-26 13:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Shay Shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not let jealousy cloud your judgment. if you like him in that kind of way he talks about, then tell him that. if that's not how you feel, you need to tell him that also. it sounds like you guys talk alot to each other so you need to find a way to get his COMPLETE attention and explain exactly how you feel. if he still doesn't get it, then you need to move on with your own life. you only get one. so make the most of it. if he is truly a friend he WILL listen. this is one of those times when you see who your true friends are. hope this helped.
2007-01-26 13:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by ian e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So do you think its healthy for you to go through this? I'm sure he cares very much for you in a friend aspect and says those things to keep you around and maybe in his own way show you that he respects and values you....hes just not going about it the right way. I say this through first hand experience. if they arent dating you now, they dont intend on it. maybe separate yourself from him completely in a polite fashion and see what he does about it?
2007-01-26 13:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously this guy is not being help for you cause it seems he likes you but what kind of person likes to make people jealous that's is so not right well i know it hard to move on but you have to for your own good there are more fish in the sea
2007-01-26 13:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by Hummm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find yourself other guys to be romantic with for get him, he seems like he have a lot of unsolve issues.... Just leave him alone so he can solve his own problems..
2007-01-26 13:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok then it seems he is nt sincere find sum1 who only luvs u i nw it sounds dificult bt when ull find ur true luv wholl luv only U then u ll forget this guy!
2007-01-26 13:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by dia a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and pretend your talkin to someone else.
2007-01-26 13:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sleep with him, have him have you and then put a strap on and do him afterwards. then he will have the total package.
2007-01-26 13:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by Piantini 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋