Me and my beau have decided to just be friends until he moves closer to me and can devote the proper time to the relationship. It will be another 2 months before he moves. At first I felt happy about the decision, but it seems that he calls me less than he did, like every other day opposed to every day. It may sound petty but when we don't talk as much, I feel it's never going to work out. We've talked about this many times but he assures me nothing has changed, he just can't call often since he has no cell phone. I try to play it cool by creating distance since we are just friends for now, but I still long for him. I often prepare myself for what I would do or say to him if after 2 months he still didn't get serious.I asked him if he felt he would be ready for something serious when he gets everything settled and he said "yes" very confidently. The anxiety is overwhelming but I love him. How do I know he isn't slowly drifting? How do I keep things alive between us for the time being?
2007-01-26 05:15:38 · 2 answers · asked by just ask 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationships are difficult at best and when you decide to be friends until you mover closer that will automatically put some distance in the relationship. It means each of you can see other people and do anything you want without the other being concerned or involved.
Just wait it out and be cool about - go out have fun and if it works out when your closer it will only be that much better.
2007-01-26 05:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thts kinda how i feel with my mate lol. go out and have fun, do sumthin u both enjoy.
2007-01-26 05:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by grintsbabe4eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋