My boyfriend and i have been together for 4months. I am now working at a clinic before i wouldnt work... now he gets soo jealous at my friend whom i have known for 10yrs. he is like my brother. he is engaged. and my boyfriend gets all dumb when he tlks to me on the phone.. he says that i forget about him whenm im working. ...
any thoughts???????
2007-01-26 05:02:52 · 5 answers · asked by mfairy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to choose a pleasant place,sit down and discuss your feelings with your bf.Open up and tell him that you love him very much.You should make him feel very secure and comfortable by honestly telling him that he has occupied a very special place in your heart and nobody can snatch you from him.Tell him how important he is to you.Let him feel confident that he is indeed very special to you.
Tell him that you dont have any specific feelings for this other guy.Explain that you consider this guy as your brother and have known him for a very long time.You should let him know that nothin is going on between you and this other guy.
Your words of honesty will get rid of his jealousy.Stay cool.
2007-01-26 05:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is different types o jealousy, I understand your b/f completely we as men have a natural instic to act a certain way when we see sombody close to our love ones..so just reassure him always that you are not that type of girl and if he loves you enough he should respect you on that if not move on theres plenty of fish in the water you dont need no drama...
2007-01-26 13:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by DAMIEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to lighten up or hit the road. He's insecure, you don't need that. Tell him to act like an adult, have some self-respect and act like a man.
2007-01-26 13:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jilli Bean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the friend, get rid of boyfriend, jealousy is not a fun thing to live with.
2007-01-26 13:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new boyfriend!!!!!!!!! unless you LIKE having to question allll your thoughts and doings! gooood luck!!!!
2007-01-26 13:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by stop it 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋