Hes just plain not cool so all my freinds and I beat him up.Well,not literaly.We make fun of him and pretend we beat him up and he cries and runs 2 mummy.By the way hes 16 and does'nt look like he has a mental problem and his mom says the doctors say hes fine.But hes just 1 of thos kids.
2007-01-26 05:01:56 · 24 answers · asked by this_home_dawg 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
are you serious!? y is it bad??? you think its GOOD to rag on someone just because hes wierd??? good god, do you kick small puppies, and steal little kids lunch money too?? what kind of a Jerk are you?
its bad, because ITS WRONG. plain wrong. you should NEVER make fun of someone because they're different. what does it matter to you... im sure hes got good points about him too, but you just see that hes wierd?? good grief... get a life, do your school work, and leave the poor kid alone.
PLUS you realize its the wierd kids that end up with the million dollar jobs?? who knows.. he might be the next Trump.. and you might end up working for him one day.. wouldnt that suck for you.
2007-01-26 05:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by asailorsstar 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm weird, always have been (THANK GOODNESS!). Weird ppl are definitely an essential part of our society. This isn't "The Giver" and everyone should be allowed their own personality and preferences.
Of course, you could be doing this kid a favor, helping shape him into the person he will become. My boyfriend was picked on in school, not so much beat up, but surely outcast for how shy he was and how differently he viewed things. It actually immensly affected how he deals with people and life to this day. He knows how it feels to be left out, so he tries to never leave anyone out. He knows how it feels when noone cares, so he cares about everything. He prays for dead animals on the side of the road, hoping they are happier in a better place or that in their next life they can be one of those machines found in a junkyard that crushes cars so that they may exact revenge. Well, he might not think the thing about the car crusher but I like it and he should. :) lol.
The trials you put this boy through on a daily basis could make him strong and determined or do exactly the opposite. He could end up being the next Donal Trump, but then again, maybe he'll become the next Columbine shooter. You never can tell how kids are going to take things. Or how anyone is going to take things for that matter.
Whatever your reasoning for singling out that boy, it's not your place to decide if he is deserving of punishment or not and most assuredly not your place to enforce any kind of punishment you deem him worthy of because, more likely than not, you're wrong. Who are you dictate how people should act?
2007-01-26 05:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Veladesity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The point of it is not him. The point is that real men, do not have to prove their strength. Does your father go around beating up on people to show that he is a real man. No. So, the question remains why do you? Are you not a strong enough individual to make a decision on your own. Do you have to make fun of him to be a cool guy? What is a cool guy? Is it your ability to make fun of people? Is it your appearance? What makes you more important than another person?
When you figure this out, you will be on your way to being an adult. Until then you will be a child and treated like one.
By the way, arrogance is not very becoming in a man. Be yourself, not an image who you think you need to be, to fit in.
The girls like guys with strong character. The ability to say no and maintain respect is the goal of life. For others to respect your opinion without downgrading you for being an individual.
I hoped this helped.
2007-01-26 05:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Zeke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are 16 too you should be able to figure that for your self.Put yourself in that kids shoes what if it was you who wasn't cool ,would you want to be beat up all the time.I think its the kids who do the beatings are the uncool kids.Every person goes through a time in their life that they look weird or act weird it doesn't make them uncool.When you become an adult you will look back on this and totally regret what you have done.Try to be his friend and think about he feels.He may be pretty cool after all!Don't judge people by the way they look its what is in your heart that matters.This kid may grow up to be a model for all you know (people change as they enter adult hood).He cries and runs to mommy cause she is probably the only one that cares about him.Grow up and try to get to know this kid ,find out what he likes or dislikes and always put yourself in the other persons shoes.Say to yourself would I like to go thru that.
2007-01-26 05:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 minutes ago you asked the question "why do I hate myself?"6 minutes ago you asked this. Let me see, what can I say to you?First of all, do you believe in Jesus Christ? I am not here to preach to you, thats for sure,so dont stop reading yet.Does that make you and your friends, no I am not bring your friends in on this, lets just talk about you. Does this bullying make you feel good? like a real man???Why do you think its bad to beat up the "weird" kid.Dont ask the people on the internet, ask yourself. Maybe that has alot to do with why you hate yourself, because deep down you dont want to do some of the things you and your so called "friends" are doing.I now I would not like myself to much if I did such hateful things.Why dont you give the kid a break.There use to be bracelets here in maryland. They were made out of some kind of rubber, and it had the letters W.W.J.D. Do you know what it stands for?Here it is, "what would Jesus do?"What if Jesus was that little kid that you and your friends are beating up everyday?Ya never know man. People say He will walk this earth again.If I was you I would start living the right way. Leave those bad *** boys alone and find another crowd to hang with. Maybe, just maybe, you might find out you arent such a bad fellow anyway, and you might start to like YOU again. Take care friend.
2007-01-26 05:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Leneki 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should consider the weird kid who invented Microsoft & became a billionaire. You really may not want to cause him grief as he just may be the dude to give you a job someday. Also, grow up, you shouldn't treat him so because it isn't right, plain & simple.
2007-01-26 05:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by curiousgeorge 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, it's wrong to even hit someone just because he is weird or stupid. I bet if he has a choice, he wouldn't want to be like that. But believe me, you understand what I'm trying to tell you when you grow up next time. It's a part of growing up.
2007-01-26 05:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by ButterMilkQueso 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In center college i became the "loner/shy youngster" In intense college i became the extreme youngster who frolicked with the band geeks and drama teenagers! Now.. In college, i'm purely me! i will no longer be able to truly be placed in a kind :)
2016-11-01 08:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just "plain not cool" to beat up anyone. You must have an inferiority complex; you have to beat up someone in order to make yourself feel special. You are one of "THOSE" kids, I see!
2007-01-26 05:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you like it if you where him. this is why there are school shooting and people killing other people. He will brake at one point and he will aether be your boss in ten years and not let all the thing you did to him go and make your life Crap. just think on that.
2007-01-26 08:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by C.K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋