I might be pregnant what do I do?

Question

I am going in today to the doctors to find out if I am pregnant. I am only 18 years old, I really think i might be, I have no idea how to tell my mom and dad, if it turns out that I am. My dad would be so upset he would say something to just make me feel really low, my mom would just be so hurt and sad, I have no idea how to even start and how to even affored to take care of a baby, I need advice on how to tell my parents and how to take the next step?

Answer 1

this is a decision you can only make remember this will affect you the rest of your life, do you think you can take care of a baby? are you willing to take full responsability? i dont belive on abortion but sometimes you need to look at options****

Answer 2

Please don't listen to those other moronic answers!

Hang in there....your parents love you and only want the best for you. You should tell them. I would go get a pregnancy test first to verify that you are, then tell them so that they can be there to support you.

I was really young when I had my daughter....younger than you. My boyfriend and I did not stay together. But my daughter was always my bright shining star.....I don't know what I would have done without her. I am now a college graduate with an awesome job and taking very good care of my kids as a now divorced single mom. So remind yourself that there are no limitations on what you can do except the limitations you put on yourself.

There is help out there to help you afford your baby. You should go to the social services department in your area and they can help you by giving you insurance that will cover you and the baby so that the medical bills are taken care of, then they may be able to help you more.

Things happen for a reason and eventhough you are doubting that you are ready....babies are a gift from God....they are not a mistake. Remember God never puts more on you than you can handle.

Hang in there....I know this is tough....and Good Luck. I will keep you in my prayers.....

Answer 3

Horrible answers. The first few.
Look, act like an adult first off...b/c 18 is considered an adult. Pregnant at 18 is better than at 15. Personally I don't agree with abortions in most cases. I was adopted, if my birthmom decided to take the easy way out I wouldn't be here. I just met her last year actually.
Sit down with your parents. Ask them not to be to hard on you, you know you made a mistake by not being careful and that you are sorry if you dissappointed them. Talk to them, even if they yell it's best not to yell back.
You can decide to try and raise the baby but if you are unsure there is always adoption. Give the child you created a right to life with a loving family who can take care of it. Remember it is a person inside you....it is someone you can grow to love.
I really hope you don't decide on abortion, your 18, your an adult now. Live up to your mistakes and don't just toss them aside. Sometimes the mistakes you made can lead to the best things in your life.

Answer 4

Oh sweetie...I had the same dilemma five years ago when I had to tell my parents that their 19 year old daughter was pregnant. Telling them is the hard part. You can't really say what their reaction is going to be. Just be honest and open with them. I was and they had no choice but to accept the situation for what it was. Oh, and trust me, hon, there really is no way to be prepared for a baby. Yes, they cost, but so does living. I had no clear idea of how I was going to take care of my daughter, but here she is, five years old and healthy. I do struggle, but in my eyes, life is and always will be a struggle. Do the best you can to be a good mother and keep your stress levels down. It takes a strong woman to be a good mother and if I did it, you can too. It's not the end of the world, but the beginning of a new life. What you should be doing now, if you're pregnant, is finding a good doctor and take your prenatal vitamins. Good luck, dear, and keep your head up!

Answer 5

Don't let anyone make you feel bad about this. Creating a living breathing tiny baby is not something to be ashamed of. You need to first decide what you're going to do. It depends on what you think you can handle. You have to decide whats best for the baby. If you keep it then you have to know that everything in your life will change and you will first and foremost be a mother, for the rest of your life. You have to accept that it will take many sacrifices, tears, and pain. You have to make a decision that you will do whatever you have to to make a good and safe home for your child. That is a lifelong decision.

I got pregnant at 18. I know exactly how you feel. I have a beautiful three year old daughter. She is the center of my entire world and I would never change my decision to keep her. (I opted to either keep her or giver her up for adoption.) It's a personal decision and you need to do what you think is best. The rest of the people in your life will follow.
E-mail me if you need someone to talk to.

Answer 6

Wow - such great answers you're getting!!! Honestly, don't worry until you know for sure that you are pregnant. If you are, talk to your parents and discuss your options. You might be surprised at how they respond. Don't listen to all the people telling you to get an abortion - that is a personal choice and is not right for everyone. If you do want to have the baby but can't afford to raise it you might want to consider giving it up for adoption. There are a lot of couples out there that can't have kids and would really like to adopt.

Answer 7

Well, it is a BIG responsibility. Trust me I had 2 girls by 21. I am also a full-time student majoring in Accounting. So if you are planning to go to college its not going to be easy. I do not support abortion but since you are 18, I would go to one of those family planning centers and get emergency contraceptives. That way if you are you'll never know for sure. Then start protecting yourself so it doesn't happen again until you are ready.

Answer 8

well you thought you were adult enough when you spread your legs. What's the matter now not so grown up are we? You got yourself into this trouble now get yourself out.
Your 18 and need to be on your own move out and let the baby's daddy worry about it not your parents. They already "tried"
to raise a baby right. It's not their job to take care of a little girl who couldn't keep her pants on you decided that you were big enough for the responsibity of sex now deal with it.
Maybe if you get down on your knees and worship your boyfriends babymaker you can convince him to stay and pay for that baby. But once your stomach starts to get big he will probably go somewhere else anyway

Answer 9

Ask the father of your baby what his plans are now that you are pregnant with his child. If he decides to marry you, then there is nothing to fear and nothing to hide from your parents. If he decides not to take responsibility, then talk to your mom and dad. I do not know how your parents will take the "baby news" but I am sure their hearts will be with you and your child.

I will pray for you and the baby. Hope that little person will be given a chance and be treated well.

Answer 10

okay lets take lt nice and slow here. what you will have to do is lf you can get a hold of your boyfriend the both of you should all sit down and talk this out quietly with your parent`s. so lf your friend wants to show some responsibility and to take care of you and the baby this is probably what your parent`s are gonna ask you. l know this isn`t gonna be easy. lt never is when lt comes to time when you have to break the news to your parent`s

Answer 11

Well you never know how they would take it if you dont tell them. Hey maybe they would understand you. My friend was also in the same situation and told her the same im telling you she was scared and it turns out that her parents were happy she went and told them and they didnt have to find out from someone else. So if you are just tell them what you feel and im pretty sure they would understand. Good Luck :D