I want to ask this girl what our "situation" is, but how?

Question

I'm 20, she's 19. We've been talking for a month, gone out once (she had to cancel twice because of her son). I have never been in a relationship and want to know where we are with one another. How do I ask this?

Answer 1

Ask her what does she think of you?
Ask her what is she looking for?
Ask her is she seeing someone else?

Or just go with the flow and just be friends for now and go out with others, until she is available,,,

What do you want with her