how can i ever feel special towards my girlfriend sexually when i know that everything weve done shes already done with someone else? she was my first. so she got so many firsts from me. its so bad that i think of her as used goods.
2007-01-26 04:44:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
really it doesn't make that much of a difference. you will understand when you get older.
2007-01-26 04:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you enjoy everything that you guys do? Is there something that she hasn't done? For example: Tantric sex? Multiple o's from the tongue? Double whammies? Have her open up her playbook for you. Don't fret because shes been around unless you want to have sex with a virgin. If you think she is used good, I will take her any day of the week and on weekends too.
2007-01-26 12:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will say one thing. my EX bf felt the same way about me..
any time we had an arguement it would always lead back to the fact that he thought i was some big slut before we met (when that is not the case at all)
sure girls make some mistakes .. mostly because they think thats what guys want..
so leave her past in the past.. and accept the fact she's with you now and thats all that matters..
otherwise your going to hold it against her for the rest of your relationship and she's going to end up resenting you.. so if you want to work this relationship out.. let the past go ... otherwise this relationship will not last
trust me
2007-01-26 12:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that the problem is you and not her. If you think of her as "used goods" then move on an find you a one-timer. Maybe you just want to measure up to someone else rather than making love to the woman you say you love.
2007-01-26 12:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too bad you feel this way. It seems like you knew this before "giving" yourself to her and to look at her as used now can be hurtful to her. And if you dont last and you start dating someone else should they consider YOU used because you have been with someone. The past is the past . let it stay there.
2007-01-26 12:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kirsten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dmack,
Well leave her alone then! You got the same thing from her.....you benefitted from her experience.
Whaa???? Now, you feel all dirty?
Give me a break. There were no losers in that situation. If you don't like it now, I am sure nothing is binding you to her.
2007-01-26 12:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA
i don't know about you but i wouldn't care who, when or what she did.....as long as this time its with YOU.
and look at the bright side- your probably bad in bed and she most likely has to do all the work. so THINK ABOUT HOW SHE FEELS.
she pobably has to fake it and go to the bathroom to get herself off so she feels satisfied.
best of luck
2007-01-26 12:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should feel special there's no way she would think about someone else if she truely luvs u right?
2007-01-26 12:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think that way, believe me...i have wasted alot of quality time thinking about something that can not be changed, she loves you and is with you now..her past is exactly that '' her past'' don't let your thoughts destroy your future with her.
all the best
2007-01-26 12:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're such a jerk to say that she's used goods!!! I hope she reads this and breaks up with you for being a pig.
2007-01-26 12:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by Freddie xoxo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋