I am dating this guy and have been for about a month and a half. he told me right off the bat that he has some female friends. So OK, I'm fine with that. Me and this guy along with a few friends of ours go to church on a regular basis. A few times when we get there, she is there and sits with us. She never says a single word to me and I don't really like her being there. I kind of think she should be backing off. She knows we are dating. she has been friends with him for 2 years. I plan on talking to the guy I am dating and letting him know that it makes me uncomfortable when she is around. Any thoughts?
2007-01-26 04:41:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have guy friends and I am married, Although I must admit that I see most of them in secret, because my husband is really jealous. I have never done anything with any of them, nor have I lead them to believe I would, They are easier to talk to than my spouse and I enjoy their company. They are great guys with my best interests in mind and I feel aweful that my husband can't enjoy their company too, as they are really awesome. But then I can see that if it were the other way around I might feel jealous if my husband did that. But what can I do other than never speak to my friends? She may like your boyfriend as a crush or they may really just be friends, try getting to know her and you'll probably get to know what her agenda is with your boyfriend. Maybe you'll like her. I know this set up can be uncomfortable, but he was honest enough to tell you in the beginning he had female friends and maybe that what it really is.
2007-01-26 04:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is always there that is a little strange. Having friends of the opposite sex are okay as long as both parties are aware. I don't think its right to keep opposite sex friends that you have slept with, been intimate or had deep feelings for ,that truly puts a damper on the new relationship, and for a 3rd wheel to be around all the time, is just weird. I would tell your boyfriend politely how you feel and that you understand the friendship but would like more one on one with him.
2007-01-26 04:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attempt making acquaintances with people who're shy additionally. You made acquaintances with people who're needless to say greater outgoing which you're used to being, so because it is in all hazard what set you back the main--being in an already uncomfortable undertaking (the girls folk who intimidated you) as properly to a clean environment (the events). Shy every person is in many circumstances friendlier and greater accepting than outgoing human beings (or a minimum of that's what i've got got here upon) in spite of the undeniable fact that it could be difficult to get to renowned them before everything. in addition they would be greater powerful to narrate to considering the fact that they have one significant character function of yours in undemanding (i can not enable you comprehend techniques many circumstances i've got will become acquaintances with somebody purely because of the fact we bonded over our awkwardness whilst every person else became socializing conveniently). as quickly as you have made acquaintances, this is going to become much less complicated to make much greater--so as that in case you had to objective events and each little thing, you will experience greater mushy maybe going with different acquaintances.
2016-11-01 08:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every new relationship he must to forget all around him, maybe he want to tease u and to make her jealous go away from him, and tell him the truth, no normal girl let her b,f share with other girls so thanks to ask us, and my thoughts to u tell him what u feel and what u thinking and see how he react then u will decide good luck
2007-01-26 04:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop butting into your bf's life...you've only been dating for a month! He's not going to dump his friends for you ...If anything you will drive him away.
2007-01-26 04:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you girls when it comes to having your boyfriends friend around?.
Same happened to me, i had to stop my friendship relashionship with my friend because of my (at that time) girlfriend.
There is nothing wrong with that, unless they have something. Have you notice anything?.
I recommend getting to know her and be friends with her, he will apreciate that from you.
2007-01-26 04:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by Piantini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think sharing your insecurites is the answer.. i mean who wants to be with someone who is insecure..
he's with you.. he's your bf.. thats what matters.. be glad he wants you to be around when hanging out with her.. i mean its not like he wants to go off and hang out with her all alone ..
so be nice to her..
2007-01-26 04:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him he might like that you dont like that she is right there.....but for ther most part it is just church and nothin to big.....just take it easy he is with you not her!
2007-01-26 04:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's known him longer and he chose you. Lighten up.
2007-01-26 04:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a relationship killer.
2007-01-26 04:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋