2007-01-26 04:40:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What made you think he was cheating? If you thought he might be there is probably a good reason you were thinking that. I would trust your bf until he gives you a good reason not to.
2007-01-26 04:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by nic712 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The damage is not irreversible, but you DO need to understand why the cheating started in the first place. If there has been a problem then you need to address that problem before you can move on or it will just happen again. The two of you should talk about it. Just avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this feeling that you're interested in someone else. I hope it's not true." Remember, any time you confront someone or discuss your feelings with somebody, you are taking a risk. You or your boyfriend could get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether asking the question is important enough to you to be worth the risk.
It takes time and effort to rebuild your relationship, but this would make a good starting point. If you truly love each other, you will find a way to stay together, to forgive, and to rebuild the trust and respect your love should be based on. But if you're not sure, just be careful not to let yourself get hurt again.
2007-01-26 13:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by emma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figuare that out on your own. Why did you think he was cheating in the first place, hopefully you had a darn good reason to go an accuse him of this before you said anything. Its not now that you trust him and you should stay its if he now trust that you will trust him and stay with you. You better starting thinking hard, because if my bf accused me of cheating and he also asked all my friends that would make me wonder if we could have a good realatioship, without someone feeling like someone is always up to something. Good Luck on the relationship!
2007-01-26 12:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by Tommy's_Sweet_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the cheater's credo "lie, lie, lie, when caught deny, deny, deny."
His friends may know nothing of his activities. You may be correct in that he didn't cheat. But know this. Partners always know what they know before they know it. IF you have a feeling, and it continues and you just can't stop thinking something is a little out of place, trust your gut. It's probably right.
2007-01-26 12:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow him
2007-01-26 12:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Then you better spend the next month kissing his @$$ to make up for not trusting him.
2007-01-26 12:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are built on trust once you don't have that any more you have nothing. it's up to you how much you trust him.
2007-01-26 12:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine said the same thing to me and our friends but we used to go out after he left the hosue and caught him over and over and over and to this day he will still deny it even though everyone saw him.
2007-01-26 12:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His friends told you he didn't cheat...sleep with one of them and the truth will come out.
2007-01-26 12:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by reneemj76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends lie! Why do you think he was cheating?
2007-01-26 13:15:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋