but in the end, the bully always makes them cry... They still want to be this kids friend, because sometimes this bully is really funny and nice
2007-01-26 03:45:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
My son has been picked on by people who are supposedly his friends. I was picked on in school by people who were nice to me at times. What I am teaching my son is that once a person steps out of line with you, it is not in your best interest to continue to pal around with that person. Once you give a person permission to hurt, you they will do it and that is exactly what you are doing by trying to remain friendly with a bully. I believe that you should still speak to the person if they speak to you. I don't think you should share your snack or offer to let them come over and play your video games, or take up for them in an argument with someone else. I want my son to forgive but not forget how it felt to be picked on by that person so that he will not open himself up to the same treatment from that person again. I hope this is helpful.
2007-01-26 04:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter has a friend who is sweet one moment and then the next is saying something hateful and cruel. She seems to needs friends so badly and tries hard to be nice, but then sabotages the friendship. I think she comes from an unhealthy family where communication skills are not really taught.
I feel bad for this child and try to help by having her over for playtimes, but daughter's feelings are my bggest concern. If this child does not stop verbally abusing my daughter, I'll have to stop the playdate totally.
2007-01-26 03:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was in grade 6, I was very clear of these type of people, and made sure that I was distant from them. However, my bestfriend did not think the same way. She ended up ditching me, and became "bestfriends" with the popular/bully girls. She insisted that they were "really nice" once you get to know them. But at the end, they weren't as nice as she thought they were, and ended up getting dumped by them. We are now in highschool. She is not my bestfriend any more, and she didn't learn anything from her mistake.
2007-01-26 03:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My son has a friend at school that also lives close by and I hate to let them play together because my son or daughter always ends up getting hurt by this kid. The parents are aware and he does get punished when it happens but my son still wants to be his friend and I know that it his just his passive nature. So I just try to always be around when they are playing together at home.
2007-01-26 03:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 00:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by emilios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some adults are liek that to, nice one moment, and the next being mean
2007-01-26 04:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we had this experience. We just had to put our foot down and say - we will not have in our house someone who is mean to you. period.
2007-01-26 03:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by t jefferson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill that kid teach him a lesson
2007-01-26 04:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋