but you cant stop thinking about her, but you dont know how she feels. what do i do???????????????????
2007-01-26 03:37:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Send her flowers
2007-01-26 03:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by George P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was the arrangement when you decided to see how it played out. Was there a time line you would wait?? If there was make sure that you abide by the stipulations that were set. If there were none you could call her and just be honest with how you are feeling with out allowing and guilt or blame to come through your voice. Make sure that you are genuine in how you are feeling that it is not a spur of the moment thing. The other thing you need to be ready for is that she may have decided to put you out of her mind while she is taking this break from the relationship. You need to think about how she may respond . Be ready!! If you do get back to together i challenge you to think about the reasons that you had to take a break . Were they reasons that you can change or fix?? If not maybe you should do some more quite on your own thinking
goodluck cheers
2007-01-26 11:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by kellyannecares 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been three days, even if this was a permanent break up you would still feel the same way. Give it a week or two before you make any decisions.
2007-01-26 11:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi149 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off. How long were you together? Call her, tell her how you feel. It's extremely hard to stop talking to someone that was/is such a b ig part of your life. Message me if you want. Cuz there's not many details to work with.
P.S. I'm going through a 'break' too, it's extremely hard. But we are just on a 'break'
2007-01-26 11:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mandy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call her and tell her how you feel. Most likely, she won't be calling you because she doesn't know how you feel and doesn't want to make the first move after a breakup. You should definately call her....and even if she doesn't feel the same way....you haven't lost anything.....it's better to take a chance than to wonder what could've happened if you made that call! Good luck!
2007-01-26 11:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by ChunkyMonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you hate her?...NO, does she hate you?..probably not...was the breakup a result in a blown up argument or was it mutual...
Call her and talk. You can still talk to each other and work through it. Maybe you're done with each other, but you can still talk and be friendly. There's nothing wrong with that. You've been intimate with her (to a point) so discussing what happened is the best course.
2007-01-26 11:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by kb6jra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to think about your ex if you just broke up a few days ago. You have to get used to being on your own again. Give it some time before trying to get back into it. Depending on why you guys broke up, getting back together may just prolong the inevitable.
2007-01-26 11:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who broke up with who sweetie?
If she broke up with you (and no, you don't have to post that if you don't wanna)...move on and don't let her torture you.
If you can't...ask her what she thinks about trying....if she's no willing....cry your eyes out if necessary and then look at the world around you! There is so much to do and so many OTHER girls :)
Good luck darlin'!
P.S. My husband and I broke up for 6 months while we were dating and no we are (obviously) married and SO happy! We needed the break!
2007-01-26 11:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her, becuase she wont call since she has her pride. ANd she doens't know how u feel. Call her and tell her how u feel, if she doens't feel the same way its not like u are loosing her, since u already did, and there is planny of fish in the see.
2007-01-26 11:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by Loco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did anything change? Have the issues that caused the break-up been resolved? Get over it .
2007-01-26 11:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by boatworker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋