when i'm sober an i have sex it hurts but wen i come in from a night out an have alcohol in me it doesn't hurt for me to have sex then, why does this happen.
2007-01-26 03:32:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does this guy have a monster in his pants if this is the case then that is why
2007-01-26 03:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Chris M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably because your muscles are more relaxed after drinking. When your muscles in that area are tight sex can be painful. As you become aroused the area will relax and your vagina will become longer so that your partner won't be hitting your cervix. What you need to do is get fully aroused before having full-penetrative sex.
Suggestions:
Ease into things gently, plenty of foreplay and lubricant. Don't let your partner go all the way in until you are ready. This might take a while, but it will be worth the wait. If you get on top you'll be able to control this better. Don't let him really go at it until you are ready for it. Try not to be too impatient with yourself. Good sex takes time.
2007-01-26 03:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by SmartBlonde 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
External stimulation. You spend the night getting worked up, most likely your female parts are preparing for the fun to come later in the evening! I know we have some of the wildest sex after a night of being out drinking. Wanna party with us? hehe
2007-01-26 04:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are more relaxed when you've had a few drinks....try to get to that same place when sober....you may need to talk to your GP or a sex therapist.
2007-01-26 04:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gay guy, right? if you are it is because your not nervous as much with your pissed drunk, and therefore your bum relaxes and presto...its done. Wjhen your sober you are just up tight, and just wait till have to have it, and youll figure it out.
If your a girl, well your just doing it wrong so go see a doctor, and change your avatar
2007-01-26 04:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should never hurt to have sex so maybe you should see a doctor.. or it could be than when you're drunk you're not nervous so things are more relax and theres no pain.. sometimes if your nervous you tense up and that can make it painful
2007-01-26 03:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have had a really bad sexual experience when you were sober but found when you were drunk it was better, so psychologically youve programmed yourself to think having sex sober hurts..
2007-01-26 03:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The alcohol numbs certain parts of the body, and it relaxes muscles!! lol!! sick, but true!!
2007-01-26 04:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're more relaxed when you're hammered. You should have a chat with your Doc.
2007-01-26 03:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Well, said Alberto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably best to ask your doctor.
2007-01-26 03:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋