When I see women grinding with strange men and practically having sex with them in public, I feel embarrassed. I can't get myself to do something like that to a woman I barley even know, and in front of everyone else! Do you think I should stop going to clubs to pick up women?
2007-01-26 03:01:25 · 16 answers · asked by roya67 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
After 23 years of 'clubbing' with bad results, I finally found the person I have dreamed of. And not in a club where there is nothing but lonely, insecure, alcoholic people.
2007-01-26 03:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by redbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go to a club to pick up a girl, they arent all out there for sex or anything but they are out there to have fun and any women you actually get to pick up and take home from a club is to easy, meaning a slut and one night stand. If you dont want that meet em elsewhere! i know itll sound corny but try museums and coffea shops or library's go to a meeting like a book club, join an organization. at places like that then maybe youll find a nice girl. and remember dont come on too strong cuz its not a singles club they are thier to talk with people and maybe theyll talk with you and like you and thatll lead to making friends and meeting people, that will be the best way to meet girls, make new friends who can introduce you to the girl of your dreams.
2007-01-26 11:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Tavia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, because you seem like a very decent person. We still need people like that in this world. Don't look for a woman that way. That is the mistake that many people make, because what happens, is that their partners don't take them seriously, and some of them want them to stop going out to the club for them, yet that is the same place where they met them....
Wait patiently. The right woman will come to you at the right time.
2007-01-26 11:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by jessrich1000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't pick up a girl in a club. A lot of girls who go to clubs are sluts (not all). And more then likely the girls who you do find in the clubs aren't going to want a relationship. However if you are wanting just sex for a night or two...continue going to clubs to pick up your women.
2007-01-26 11:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Whit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you notice that most of the replies to this question are from women ? This shows the real truth behind the clubs !
Go for it if u want just sex..
2007-01-26 11:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think clubs are kind of a hore spot, I like going to bars /billairds maybe something with a small dance floor . But mostly clubs are for over weight white girls looking for black or mexican guys to take them home or for the little gangster acting girls who are tottaly retarded.! guys know to go there for skanks!! I think that if you are a guy with enough class not to act that way you would not find any interesting girls in there try some other sort of places. like small bars with alot of kereoke or live bands.
2007-01-26 11:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you are looking for a 1 night thing, then clubs can be helpful, but it sounds like you're looking for a nice girl and you most probably won't meet one there. most of the girls i've dated were friends of friends or friends ofcoworkers...etc. meeting someone randomly is very hard to turn into a relationship. but it can happen. good luck!
2007-01-26 11:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by The Godfather327 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of my friends go into clubs just to dance. Other girls go to hook up.
I don't go to clubs. My friends were trying to make me go to one on my birthday but i told them no. Every once in a great while i'll go to this bar with this smaller dance floor in my town, but i get hit on all the time and i hate it....i'm just there with my friends to have fun and relax...and not fight off guys who hit on me....and i have a boyfriend...so i'm not looking for love.
Don't go to clubs to look for love, unless its to sleep with them, a one night stand. There's other places to find love.
2007-01-26 11:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girls that are in the club trying to pick up and not the girls that you want for a serious, long term commitment, look elsewhere.
2007-01-26 11:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by sunnydayz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Clubs are trash. I prefer a good old fashioned bar.
2007-01-26 11:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Seven Costanza 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋