White Girls Opinions prefferred?

Question

We're chatting on messenger. You ask what I look like, and I say 5'10, black hair, brown eyes, 180lbs.

You are really liking that description.

Later I send you a picture and you see I am a man of color (black and white to be exact.) I'm no model, but no troll either. Average I guess.

You either "vanish", or kill off any romantic or physical possibilities.

If you are talking to a guy with my description, w/o mention of race, is it assumed he is white??

I just get frustrated by this, as I am attracted to white girls. I know some aren't attracted to whoever, but why does this keep happening?

Answer 1

Your first description of yourself I would not assume you were white. Now if it said 5'10" blonde hair blue eyes...yes I would assume. Maybe when you first start talking to a girl, maybe you should mention your race whenever you do describe yourself. (Its sad now a days that race is a leading factor in whether or not you like someone). Then if they do "vanish" at least it happened within the first little while and instead of after a great conversation.

Answer 2

I wouldn't assume anything, I try to keep myself from doing that because it usually ends up hurting someone, so no. But it wouldn't matter to me either way really.

Answer 3

You'll have better luck if you just came straight out with it in order to avoid the let down later on, my friend. Me personal I preferr "pure bloods, like Seal."

Answer 4

You just haven't come across the right person for you.
You shouldn't have to mention your race as it doesn't matter; it doesn't determine if you are a good person or not.

Answer 5

I wouldn't assume he's white, but it wouldn't really matter to me either way.