Listening to acquaintances and friends talk and talk about how great their boyfriends and girlfriends are gets boring and old fast. Like you may have lunch, say a guy and gal and the other person spends your whole time together doing nothing but going on and on about how great Tom or Sue is, what plans for the weekend, what movies they saw, etc. It almost seems like the other person wants to convince you they have a life and they have to make sure you are aware of it so you can be impressed. It appears also that the person doing the talking may have low self esteem and needs to be uplifted. I think it is a bit rude to continually talk about the other person's relationship and perhaps is a better discussion with a therapist. Anyone else share this view?
2007-01-26 02:41:27 · 5 answers · asked by mrfrudd2006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people who always talk about how great their relationships are...seldom arent happy in there relationships.. they sell it soo hard.. so other people cant smell the dysfunctionalism...pay no attention.. change the suject.. when they start heur role..or.. inquire into the realtionship.. you'll see the story/drama unfold right before your very eyes.
2007-01-26 02:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by CHELAKIKI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really...because sooner or alter they'll be crying what a loser/cheater their boyfriend/girlfriend is/was. Some stay with the loser boy/girl because they're too embarrassed to admit they made a supreme mistake with that choice in the first place. It's all relative in a "relationship".
This doesn't bother me because I'm single and love not having a "relationship" weighing me down. I don't need another person to "complete me" so I'm not bothered by other's who feel a temporary euphoria in a boy/girl friend.
2007-01-26 10:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree im glad to know the two of them r happy and not having problems but when they go on and on about what he said about her cutex and such talk it puts me in a trance like state of silence i wake when they quit
2007-01-26 10:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shut up
2007-01-26 10:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i a quilty of that so no
2007-01-26 10:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋