What does she think of me?

Question

I have a friend of many years whom I recently discussed being more than friends with her. I told her I liked her a whole lot, but I have reservations. She said we can enjoy a nice friendship. Beforehand, she flirted sometimes so it seemed. She still plays footsie, and if I just let her, the intensity picks up throughout the night. I even told her my personal views on when and how I will get married, and I stated how I would be committed. She welcomes open conversation between us now, and she listened eagerly. What could she think of me??

Answer 1

I think she thinks that your undecided on what you want. What reservations, hell we all do but not when your trying to start a relation ship. I suggest you & her talk a lot & get to know each other. Look in to her eyes when you talk. Don't freak her out about the future when it sounds like there is not really even much of a present. Slow down & let time take it's course. What's goin to happen will when they do. Hope this helps or gives you something to think about.

Answer 2

She is simply treating you like a friend. You informed her that you have reservations and that was the "killer" in your hopes to having any kind of relationship with her. Women don't like men who are undecided. It makes them look like they are just using them. We are not stupid and we do have our own little ways of finding out how people truely feel about us. You need to either tell her that you want to be committed to her and no one else, or accept the friendship only. Good luck.