In my post foolish games where I talked about the things my boyfriend does. A commentor tried to bash me for not admitting what I have done so here we go. He's stood me up before & lied & said that he went to jail when he was with another girl. He use to always be at least two hours showing up when he said he was on his way and I would call his phone constantly & he wouldn't answer. I went through his phone & called back one of the numbers that I found & it was another girl that he was pursuing a relationship with. I've followed him more than once & every time I catch him with a different girl. I gave him keys to my apartment & he'd come in whenever he wanted to & most of the time not say a word to me. He always accusing me of lying, even when I tell the truth. He wouldn't even tell me where he lived or where he worked. So yes I was suspicious & followed him. It made me feel better to know the truth & that's why I did it. Was that so wrong that he had to break up with me?
2007-01-26 02:04:02 · 21 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy is a loser! Stop wasting your time with thoughts about him!
2007-01-26 02:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by chizzylene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are better off. Why are you wasting time wondering if what you did was right or wrong. Although I would state that following and accusing is a fast way to end a relationship, but in this case it sounds like you were justified and should have left him after the first cheating.
2007-01-26 02:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL WAKE UP AND (NOT SMELL THE ROSES) BUT SEE THE ROSES. IF YOU HAVE TO DO ALL OF THAT, THEN IT'S NOT WORTH THE TIME OR RELATIONSHIP IN THE FIRST PLACE. A MAN DON'T KNOW WHEN THEY HAVE SOME THING GOOD UNTIL IT'S GONE. IT'S SOUND LIKE YOU WAS THE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP ALONE. GOOD LUCK ON THE NEXT GUY.
2007-01-26 02:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by tank1show 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He broke up with you b/c you busted him and there is nothing wrong with you. I am glad you were smart enough to follow your instinct and find out about him. Who knows what this guy was really into.
Be glad he is gone he is a real big loser.
The only you will regret is the fact that you didn't kick his sorry azz to the curb 1st.
2007-01-26 02:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE broke up with you??? --- im sorry you allowed him the time to do that --- after finding out all that you should have kicked him off the kerb ---- he is a complete non entity and you should be pleased to be rid of him --- there will be someone who cares for you along
best wishes
2007-01-26 02:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He broke up with you? Girl, you should have dumped his butt a long time ago. Why are you still mooning over him? He is a loser, and you are much better off without him. Go find someone else who will treat you better.
2007-01-26 02:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by dkiller88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. He broke up with you because he got caught, and didn't know how else to deal with it. Get rid of this dirty dog. He thinks your lying because he is constantly. F*ck that pr*ck and move on. Change your locks, and phone numbers.
2007-01-26 02:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE broke up with YOU? No, it should have been the other way around. Why did you wait for him to end the relationship? It should have been YOU who ended the relationship. Confessions... brave of you to admit what you did. It still does not excuse his lack of respect for you
2007-01-26 02:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by Balaboo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo dude dont want u and he;s using u! u need to really read what u wrote and hear urself, u sound pathetic, you really do unfortunately. ur chasin after a guy that dont want u. please move on cause he got u doin some off da wall type stuff. u are truly a stalker now. please get out of this before ur dignity is completely gone!
2007-01-26 02:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by foxzie006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should have broken up with him not the other way around cuz hes a sorry fool to not have a girl that treats him like did forget about him hes a jerk~
2007-01-26 02:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋