i'm almost 24. he's 40-45ish. i have a huge crush on him. but i kinda think hes too old for me cause i want to have kids one day and his kids are probably my age (i dont even know if he has kids im just guessing). what do you think??
2007-01-26 01:12:34 · 31 answers · asked by i_like_bears 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no number that is too much or too little. If two people are happy then that's all that matter's. If anyone else has a problem with it then that is there problem.
Good Luck!
'-)
2007-01-26 01:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is only a number if the two people involved are both adults. However, what do you have in common with this guy? Either he has to be extremely young for his age or you need to be extremely old for yours. I would suggest that you get to know him as a good friend first before thinking of a long term committment. You may find that he makes a good friend but a lousy candidate for a future. Good luck.
2007-01-26 09:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are in a crush stage, I'd really back out now. You are not in a place to be in a relationship with a man in his 40's let alone 50's. You are going to continue to grow, and you wants, likes, dislikes, goals and desires are going to change. Where he is in life, he is pretty well set. From personal experience, I really can tell you to let this one go. I understand why an older, more mature, stable man is attractive to you, but try to find someone in their early to mid 30's that have those traits. You will find you have a great deal more in common, and plans for the future would be more similar
2007-01-26 09:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by buggsnme2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having doubts now then probably yes. If it was peer pressure that made you think he was too old then this can be overcome. The fact you want kids might be the thing to come between you and him. You might be sacrificing your dreams to be with him if he doesn't want kids.I would have a long chat with him about his background etc as a friend first before you dive into a realtionship.
2007-01-26 09:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's relative. A 10 year difference is nothing for a 60 year old with a 70 year old, but you wouldn't want a 25 year old dating a 15 year old.
All else being equal I think it's best to go for someone the same age.
I wouldn't pin your hopes on this guy for children, and it'd be hard work looking after him in old age. Thinking with your head, I wouldn't do it.
2007-01-26 09:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by pantocool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, to me, i would say that you should find someone in your own age. After a while, he will start feeling old, when you just in the 30's and enjoying the best part of life. If your 24, i would say anything from 24-30 years old would be reasonable
2007-01-26 09:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by Justin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he will be 60, you will be 35 -40 and then you might have some sex related problems.
but, in the same time, I always say that you should follow the heart. therefore go for it and you will see later about how good or how bad it is. you have all your life ahead, maybe at 30 you should think about kids, so I see no problem.
2007-01-26 09:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by mihai b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too old. Plus, it doesn't sound like you know alot about this guy. Move on, preferably to someone more your age who would have the same interest as you. But hey, give t a try if you think you must.
2007-01-26 09:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by Linka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find sum 1 ur own age u can hav kids n ull get old 2 gether
2007-01-26 09:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by Candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long term you want. Now may be o.k. but when you are 45ish and still hot he's going to be 65ish and not so hot. Quick fling,yes long term no.
2007-01-26 09:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by Barry W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋