, but makes her so disagreeable when he's around? I never could understand that...
2007-01-26 01:01:50 · 24 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, no...you don't get it. I mean, why are women so willing to WANT a man around, but so unwilling to act nice once we GET there!?
2007-01-26 01:10:17 · update #1
So, the answer is(according to the women who spoke): Men are azzholes, women are just plain nutz!
2007-01-26 01:43:40 · update #2
They want men around because they have expectations of how great everything will be when they are around. Then when the man is around they want them gone because most women have expectations of how EVERYTHING is suppose to be. When I say everything, I mean everything. Not just big things like how a relationship between a man and a woman should be, their wedding day, or their children. They have expectations of how you will react when you see her new haircut, her new shade of lip gloss, or her new shoes (most men wouldn't even notice) but she expects you to notice. They have expectations of how you will greet her, say goodnight to her, hold hands with her while walking, and when it doesn't go according to plan they are disappointed. Yes women are NUTS!! I know cause I'm one of them and I too, use to expect too much. There is no way to win this one unless you are psychic and are willing to follow her "Grand Plan" of the way life should be. ;-)
Women, can't live with them,.............can't shoot 'em. Well, you could but a life in prison would be taking the easy way out.
2007-01-26 14:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by The Pig! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it has a lot to do with Ideals. I'm sure that the Woman probably cares for the Man, however, when he isn't around, she can fool herself into thinking many things that may not necessarily be true about him. It's sort of like when you haven't seen someone for a really long time, they may look and act differently when they return, possibly because your memory of them has been idealized.
A Woman can often simply forget the flaws of a man when he isn't around. After all.. If he isn't around, how could she really pick out the flaws?
I think it happens with everyone, not just in a Woman-Man situation. It's a lot of firm Ideals mixing with reality, though I don't think it has anything to do with malice on the Woman's part. After all.. how could she control how she feels when a Man isn't around?
2007-01-26 09:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by Rialee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with China Doll. She's in love with the idea of him (which is the best parts of him, personified) but when he's there in person, reality sets in and it's more difficult to romanticize the more difficult parts of the relationship that she doesn't care for and the parts that make her less than ecstatic to be in the relationship.
It's like an addiction for some women. They crave the man... but then when they have the man, they feel ill effects... but then when he's gone, they crave him again, forgetting as always that when they're with him it's not all perfect.
2007-01-26 09:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the man that we love is not around, we tend to miss them and we think of the good qualities about him, and tend to forget about all the little things that drive us crazy. So there we are thinking all these wonderful things and how much we love that person, and in he walks......and all of a sudden he starts doing things that were not in our little fantasy while he was away. So in he comes with his dirty work boots and our clean rug, throws his jacket on the couch, grabs a beer, turns our music off and puts sports on the tv and slumps down with his feet on our table. There we are thinking........ummm where is the man I was longing for, and who is this guy?? lol
2007-01-26 09:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's the one that's disagreeable and she really wants him like a drug - all the time... but he can't see it because he's too busy disagreeing when he should shut up or shut her up and kiss her, throw her down on the bed and give her her fix
2007-01-26 10:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by kimmmmmmm1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strictly a matter of hormones . Once her hormones are satisfied she no longer has a need to have him around . So, if that's all there is between them he becomes a pain in the neck . LOL
Got it ?
2007-01-26 09:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm that type of girl sad enough.
I still haven't figured it out why I do this yet, but these are some of my theories.
- The girl doesn't know what she wants.
- When the guy isn't around, she thinks with her heart... When he is, she thinks with her head.
- The connection isn't there when he is around. When he isn't, she misses the company.
Hope this helps.
2007-01-26 09:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by freezie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's insecure and requires protection...just the scent of a man, his manly voice and his presence gives a woman a secure type of feeling and she may be disagreeable when he's around beacause that's just her way of saying i want comfort and love
2007-01-26 09:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by Innocence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If us guys could spend one minute inside a chicks head we would go insane for life. They want what they can't have, they fantasize about what they want and how they want us to be, so they invision us as perfect, then we get home and reality strikes them so they resent us.
2007-01-26 09:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because she likes the thrill of the seduction and the chase but once she has him she gets bored.
Fortunately most girls grow out of this.
2007-01-26 09:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋