because he told me he is turkish but he is not any religion especially he is not muslim. do you think he can marry with buddhist but he is not religion person ???
2007-01-26 00:38:19 · 9 answers · asked by 2Q 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Turkish man can marry Buddhist man nowadays. Where have you been? Good luck with your man, nowadays anything is possible, at least whatever makes you happy.
2007-01-26 00:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by great gig in the sky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you can marry whoever you want to.
Buddhism tends to be more of a philosophy than a religion, so marrying a non - Buddhist should not be a problem, but I can understand the concerns about marring a Muslim, especially one you feel is denying his religion in order to get married.
You have not given enough detail for me to give a helpful answer, but from my experience of Turkish men, be very careful of what you are getting yourself into.
I have known them lie through their teeth to marry, then change completely once the deed is done.
2007-01-26 00:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am turkish, and I guess my religious aspirations are very similar to the guy in question so I thought I give a shot to answer.
I can not see one single reason why not. You say he is not but even if he was somewhat religious, I dont think it would still be a major problem. The true muslim Turkish people are supposed to be understanding, flexible and be able to love a person from another faith.
2007-01-28 08:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by Arius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please contact me and i will tell you my story and if none of these people have convinced you by now, my story will. I'm one of those older, naive women who fell for the handsome turkish prince who knew all the right moves. I wouldn't listen to my friends' warnings - thought they were paranoid. You won't have a clue - the acting is superb. Funny how as soon as Canada said no to his visa ( they smelled a rat), he begged me to come back saying he missed me so deeply. I went. He served me with divorce papers as soon as i landed. You are saying But my guy isn't like this. You won't know. You will see him cry when you question the wisdom of marrying - how could you do this to him, you are his everything blah blah. He will sing love songs to you on Istiklal and be so adoring. Let's imagine you do marry him and he gets a visa or is refused a visa. One day his mother will say ok son time to dump her and then start arranging a marriage secretly. The death threats and abuse will begin - all an effort to make you leave willingly once he has the visa. You will suddenly go from being a princess in a fairy tale to being garbage that's making his family smell bad. The shock still makes me head spin several months later. You have no idea of the depth of turkish family culture at this point because you haven't seen the underside of all that cozy family togetherness. You won't be welcome to visit them - god forbid the neighbors should see. And if you do go near their neighborhood you will wait on the street and be looked at by men who think you're selling something while your husband pays a quick visit to mom. Mom runs the show. Your husband has no voice of his own and you'll grow to despise his weakness. Think I'm just bitter ? maybe but am telling you that you as an older woman and an outsider are a sitting duck. The turkish male must produce children, wife must be same age or younger, muslim and turkish. You are none of these. If ever in your life you needed to be careful it is now. There are no more love songs on Istiklal for me - just me emailing him to appease him so he won't call my family and friends in my own country to threaten them. Just me stopping him from leaving Turkey illegally to avoid alimony. The travel guide says Warning to women - turkish men can be extremely charming and many women have fallen victim. My husband and i used to laugh about this together. Didn't know he was laughing AT me.
2016-05-24 01:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can if he wants to and you say yes. I don't think you will find a church that either of you will be comfortable in. I think the religious differences are a significant part of any relationship. After the sex is no longer exciting and you have to relate to this man as a person I think it is going to be more trouble than it is worth. And the poor kids will be as twisted as can be. I think I would let this one go.
2007-01-26 00:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by ARM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion is not a precondition to marriage.
Love is. I'm not talking about physical only.
BUT value system plays vital part in marriage. N value systems are based on faith ( in religious teachings).
N no marriage is without risk. Soooooooooooooo, take calculated risk. Best wishes!!
2007-01-26 00:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anuj P1952 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most of the middle east is intolerant of other religions. I suppose there is more freedom in Turkey or it used to be that way. I thank heaven that I was not born a muslim.
2007-01-26 00:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why wouldn't he?
Buddhism wouldn't prevent it; being Turkish wouldn't prevent it; he's not religious, so that wouldn't prevent it.
2007-01-26 00:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noly after she converts to islam
2007-01-26 00:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kimo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋