2007-01-26 00:22:14 · 38 answers · asked by jango 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is the FIST move - what are you going to do - hit her or shag her!
2007-01-26 01:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by wunceinawhile 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no one move my friend. You need to see where the boundaries are. If she is really into you she is going to test you and see where your confidence and aggressiveness level is at. She wants you to make the first moves. I would say start with a lil innocent backrub and as your rubbing her back kiss her on her neck and back. do the kisses soft girls like that. Than unsnap her bra so u can rub her back better. Now if she lets you do that and nothin is said you might be hitten it that night.
Now that the bra boundary is crossed have her sit up and ya start kissin rubbin each otha start feelin them titties. I mean you can ask her but just go for it and see what happens. Plain and simple if she lets you do one thing most likely she will let you do something else. Just take it slow and find out where her boundaries are.
2007-01-26 00:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Loyalty 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When the moment is right just tell her that you really want to make love with her, but you can't use your fist. That comes later.
2007-01-26 00:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
even though the end result is the same for everyone (sex!), starting to make love for the first time has no guaranteed starter formula. first make sure its what you both want. if thats the case, pick your moment carefully, and when you find the opportunity, just take your time. you will find its not as difficult as it seems. of course i am assuming you know the basics of lovemaking, lol!
2007-01-26 00:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by wolf man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've yet to make love to a girl. But when I was 15 I saw Pretty Woman at the movie theater with my boyfriend and that evening was the first time for both of us.
2007-01-26 00:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jilli Bean 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
On a first date with a girlfriend who worked at the unemployment office where I met her when I was unemployed, I said to her she looked good enough to eat and I wanted to kiss her all over then I began to undress, and so did she but I told her how sexy she looked and stopped her undressing so she could watch me.
When I was naked I started kissing her all over while I was naked and she was fully dressed. I kissed to begin with above her eyebrows and her temples, bridge of her nose, cheeks, earlobes, chin, neck and briefly brushed her lips with mine.
I worked along the fabric of her blouse along her arms and kissed her wrists and each finger then worked my way back along the arms to her shoulder and back and kissed all the way down to her waist and licked her blue denim crutch for a few moment.
Then I kissed and licked all the way down her denim covered legs
to the smooth black skinned ankles and kissed all the way around both.
I had kissed every inch of her clothing and every inch of exposed flesh. As I looked up into her eyes I could see a look of anticipation as I skirted around the top of her black suede stiletto pumps, the only articles I hadn't kissed.
Then I began to kiss the tops of her shoes and heard her sigh a little, after a while I lifted her foot and then stopped and said to her
"You surely didn't seriously think I was going to kiss the soles too did you there is no telling what you have been treading in!
I paused a moment longer taking in the disappointed look on her face, it was a picture indeed! lol But then I raised her foot and swept along the full length of both soles with the flat of my tongue at which point her legs suddenly trembled and she groaned in delight as she spontaneously c******d!
Unfortunately for me after the lengthy foreplay she had c******d so much she didn't want to make love and just wanted to curl up and cuddle as she went to sleep! However the day after she made up for it and that was a really hot date and I'm not telling, cos you'd never believe it! lol
2007-01-26 11:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by keithanthony0169 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i would start with a glass of chablis and then talk about current events and common interests. eventually, if she didn't make the first move, i would. I would begin with a kiss and cuddling then i would remove her blouse. after that you are home free.
2007-01-26 00:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get laying down on a bed in either hers or your room, and watch a movie with the lights off. If she fancies you, she'll probably snuggle up and you might get lucky! (btw, don't do this if you REALLY want to watch the film, cos, chances are, you won't watch much of it =P)
2007-01-26 00:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by echidna24 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Normally I start with a kiss
2007-01-29 23:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she trusts you enough, you'll have to take it easy, but start with kissing. Feel her up, slowly, if she allows it, your in the clear. If not. Stop and try again later!!
PS. If your in the kind of relationship where you can discus it with her. Speak to her and ask her!! Shell truly respect you for it!!
2007-01-26 00:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by Stormy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋