Cele bate and unhappy...I'm I alone?

Question

I've been cele bate now for three years well six if you don't count one brief interlude of ten seconds which was a waste of my ******* time and jewel. How many of you out there are in the smae boat and is it of choice or you haven't found the one to give your stank 2?

I'm tired of toys, its not the same as the real thing and tossed them to the curb as a result. Sure I can sleep with just anyone but I need to be attracted to someone in order to engage into sex the way I know and love how too otherwise it's a waste of my time because I can't climax if my heart isn't into it. Advice would be nice...

Answer 1

I'm not really in the same boat...I mean, I've been single for 2 1/2 years now. But not celibate. A few flings here and there but nothing meaningful. I've been trying, but its hard to find a good partner anymore, well for me anyway. All I can say is put yourself out there, go on dates, try to find someone that you are attracted to.

Answer 2

I know how hard it can be. What you really have to do is understand who you are and what kind of man is good for you. I know that might sound kind of lame or even stupid, but the real problem is that most people just don't know how to do it.

Here is something that you may or may not be willing to try.

When you see men on the street, TV, movies, etc... What type of body shape do you find attactive? (1: wide shoulders small hips, 2: small shoulders and wider hips, 3: straight body like a basketball player or a model, 4: roundish body - NOT fat but round face etc...) This will help you focus on the kind of man you may find the most suitable.
They are the four basic body shapes. #1 is an aggresive, #2 is smart but not social, #3 is most trustworthy and hardworking, #4 is most social and likable.

This is just something to think about. Hope it can help.