Right, so I have been seeing ths guy for about 2 months now (although not seen him for 3 weeks as busy working away - have been in contact though - he knows I like him & I think he does too). He has really bugged me though as he offered to come "round" (my instinct says just for sex) the other eve but i could not as plans - so i suggested this evening - which is in about 5 hours time... now this dude has not even got back to me. And y'know what? he did this before once and I overlooked it as we were new etc. So I am thinkin he is just so not into me and move on ... I am quite offended as I think the behaviour is rather rude and ill mannered - am I over reacting?
2007-01-26 00:09:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he sounds auite rude and obviously has now idea how to treat a woman, move on luv god luck.
2007-01-26 00:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your well in the running for being used, but to give him a fair chance (as everyone deserves one), see if he replies to you - or indeed turns up as a supprise, then - and this is a little mean - if it looks like he's just come round for one thing - tell him you want to wait a little longer and see what happens (or if your already sleeping with him tell him you've got your time of the month and its a bit all over the place or something to that effect) - if he stays with you for the night and just enjoys the evening and is prepared to wait till your ready - then he's probably just being a typical bloke not replying (or he's just busy at work or something)...but if he makes his excuses and leaves or is irritated cos he didn't get what he wanted - then tell him to do one and your not just being used as a piece of meat.
you can find out one way or another.
and if he doesn't get in contact - next time he does - unless he has a dam good reason for not being in touch - ie someone died - then tell him to take a hike - you want someone who is prepared to make the effort for you and not someone who expects you to jump when he clicks his fingers.
good luck
x
2007-01-26 00:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares just shag him.....hes a man so give him what he needs.....If i dont get anything out of a girl within a few days let alone a week they're history.. i know its harsh but everyone is different. which leads me to say that this guy is not right for you at all. then again if you've kept this poor man hanging on for two months, you gotta be well worth it so in theory there is someone somewhere who wants you for who you are... but me being me i would of gotten rid of you ages ago.. the only advice i can give is dont shag him just to keep him, i hate all you girls who do that. its so sad and a complete turnoff and he will only dump you the next day. bottom line is only you can decide. good luck with your decision xxoo
2007-01-26 01:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by james o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does that so early on in a relationship, doesn't promise much in the future does it? Don't waste your time and energy on him. As you yourself say He's not that into you, can;t even be bothered to get back to you. Thats just not kind is it? Go out with some girlfriends this evening instead so you're not hanging around waiting for the no hoper!
2007-01-26 00:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by apricot tree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you are over reacting at all. Not only is his behaviour extremely rude, I really don't think this bodes well for any future relationship (not unless you like being messed around!) I would be inclined to listen to any excuse he may have, but don't raise your hopes, because if he is treating you like this so early on in the relationship I really don't think he will improve. In all, my advice would be, move on.
Good luck
2007-01-26 00:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by willsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aint overeacting. Dont let him take your thong off untill you sure what the relationship has in store for you. 3 weeks is a long time not seeing each other considering you live in the sme town, This relationship has hardly started so dont lose anything/something for nothing. You hardly know each other so dont pressure him, let him be so that you can see his true colours before you decide to go tight with him. he looks like he prob jus looking for a shag
2007-01-26 00:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it from his point of view. You took off for three weeks - you've only been together for eight - and he only has your word for it that you were working. And the last time he wanted to come round you told him you were busy.
Not exactly all over him are you? Yet you're the one who's offended. Go figure.
2007-01-26 00:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by frenziedmonkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks can be a long time for most guys. He could be insecure (in a good way).
From what you typed, it sounds like you are trying to make out that he is a player of some sort (a bad one if so).
He is into you but I wouldn't knw in what way- not enough info.
If you feel he is a bit rude, make some bits a bit explicit (but don't list them).
2007-01-26 00:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me not so long ago, and this dude is now acting klike nothing happened. I chose to ignore him even though I really liked him No point ion setting yuorself up for heartbreak. If one cannot keep their promises when you are starting off, how much more later?
2007-01-26 00:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by blondedarkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 01:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he regard u as his equivalent of McDonalds
u have a problem.
he may be a control freak who likes to just get his own way and doesn't like not being in complete control of the situation.
2007-01-26 00:17:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋