I enjoy a cuddle or kiss after doing the deed. Why aren't men the same? Why do they have to roll over and go to sleep it always spoils the moment for me and I'm just wondering why they are like that?
2007-01-25 23:31:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after sexual release ..a man normally like to relax..........and sleep
it is nothing related to the girl.......but if u like the guy to cuddle and kiss ard after the act .....talk to him and tell him.simply....
2007-01-25 23:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by sagitarius....25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-16 05:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me as a man i find that after good sex i feel like i am in another world. There is love, but it cannot be expressed outwardly. Only felt on the inside. I feel like kissing and cuddling can actually take away from the sense of love and unity that i have.
If it is bad sex then i don't feel particularly sweet and loving - maybe depressed... so kissing and cuddling also feel wrong.
But sometimes i find that if a woman waits for me to come down or out of wherever i have gone during sex then a little bit later i can be very sweet.
2007-01-25 23:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
scientifically speaking when men get a happy his penis is gorged with blood. in order to do this the heart must pump harder. all the muscles are firing and a lot of energy is expelled. so upon release the body must relax for a moment. an endorfin is released and that helps us to sleep. if we didnt enjoy the sex we tend to pull away(sorry) and some men dont like to be touched after sex. but over all we just want to enjoy the moment whereas women want to ruin the moment by talking about it.
2007-01-25 23:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exhaustion and a spontaneous depletion of energy. Sex is a strong drive in a man, but it's physically draining. The male lion goes to sleep for a long time afterwards.
2007-01-25 23:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The typical role of the male in society has always been the strong provider. Men today grew up with the images of the western gunslinger and tough cop action figures as role models. Expressing emotion became something of a taboo for males centuries ago and the stigma continues today. Try discussing it with him before the deed. You may find that he is more receptive to suggestions if it does not seem like a threat to his masculinity.
2007-01-25 23:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know who you have been with but after making love always men like hug yo ad kiss you, then they all go to sleep. if you want that attention after sex and you don't get it, try to give you man a massage, or say something sweet. most of all talk to him and let him know how you feel about it, remember communication is always good and work
2007-01-25 23:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by RED ROSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not like that. I hate it when women roll over and go to sleep. I want a kiss and a cuddle after sex and don't get it.
Maybe I'm the girl in my relationships...
2007-01-25 23:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by The Overfiend 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When my lady and I have sex we dont stop until Ive had enough. If I want to kiss her, fine. If I don't, I don't. If you want a kiss, get a kiss.
2007-01-26 02:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have the right man then. After sex, I love to cuddle, kiss, and just talk for awhile....I also help clean up the "sticky mess"
2007-01-25 23:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because boys really feel tired after all sex...boys dont have emotion anymore..if you want more let him sleep for 3hours then his energy well back..and do the nice performance..i advice you to make your best shot...
2007-01-25 23:48:40 · answer #11 · answered by machoguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋