people can not control their feelings but can control their actions. if you have feelings for both of these people you need to make a decision as to whom you want to be with and not lead anyone on, i don't believe that you could be in love with two people at the same time, you may care a lot for one but that does not mean you love then both equally. think about the Little things, who do you miss when they do not call? who do you think of more when your alone? who makes you the most angry and upset when you agree? (only people we care about and hold close can upset us truly!!), who do you like waking up with? who make you laugh?? that is the person you need to be with. good luck!!!!!!
2007-01-25 22:57:11
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answered by Anonymous
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I hope evething is okay very soon be strong. In my experience it does not pay to take sides.You can listen to each side of the story but remain impartial,I know how concerned you are,it hurts when other people cannot find a solution to their problems.You are A PEACEMAKER,that is the truth of the matter,you could advise each side accordingly,then they can look at the problem from a different aspect.If you see improvements in the situation,you could ask how things are,perhaps you could arrange an outing/social occasion/meeting/without reproach it depends on the situation.Perhaps you could tell them you find it difficult to watch the ongoing problem, they are probably unaware of this factor.They may reconcile and start considering other people.They are overwhelmed by their own torment and are looking for the light at the end of the tunnel.Life can be difficult at times and full of worry. I hope this message helps you are a kind thoughtful person and deserve to be happy.If it is a love problem as in romance that is different.Decisions come into play!Who do you really like?what are your areas of common ground,i.e.likes /dislikes,interests..music,dreams ,family.,Who do you love the most and for what reasons?
2007-01-25 23:26:07
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answered by Lindsay Jane 6
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Make a list of how each girl makes you happy. Then look at the list and see who you want more. We'll talk more later, see ya sunday!
2007-01-26 13:12:21
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answered by Snowy H 1
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Definatly a spitroast
2007-01-25 22:40:16
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answered by Anonymous
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you mean like to peopel you like intimately or like a mom who dont want you to love this chik? etc.. what situation is it- go with your gut feelings to make you happy..
2007-01-25 22:40:32
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answered by gypsygirl731 6
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make sandwiches
2007-01-25 22:39:09
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answered by brainiac 4
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