what should i do when he says he's not sure what to do?

Question

iv bin wit my bf 4 8mnths.were friends b4& he strted2really like me,i just saw him as a mate,finally i saw that he was a gr8 guy and knew i didnt want him leaving me becos he was gettin fed up of w8ing so i agreed to go out wit him,@ 1st i wasnt rele in2 him,i found him clingy n serious,but he used to call and want2see me all the time and would say how happy he was and that he could see us getting married and how he thort i was 'the one'.I began to really love him when he stopd calling me so much because he began2get comfortable in the relationship, he knew he had me becos now i was showing interest in him,saying how i loved him and wanting2see him in the evening everyday,but now im always the one calling him,and he stays over nearly everynight, and he has done this2me twice now,but hes said he's not sure if he still loves me,he went away4 a few days n sed he loved me when he came bk,but now hes saying that he doesnt no what2do cos he love me but wants to make the most of bein young

Answer 1

from what ive read, he's not sure whether he loves you or not now that the two of you are an item, but long ago when he was wooing you it was as if he would do anything to give the sun and moon to you. Guys love challenges, and it seemed like you were a challenge for him. Maybe he was just infatuated and infatuation sometimes tends to be mistaken for real love. I think he doesn;t really love you. why? because when you love someone, you don't hesitate and you are SURE with what you feel. It's not like "IM NOT SURE I LOVE YOU AS OF NOW BUT IM GOING TO CANADA A FEW DAYS THEN WHEN I COME BACK IM SURE IM IN LOVE WITH YOU AGAIN."...we can't do anything about that coz guys are hardwire to be like that.

Answer 2

the situation is so hard..
but to think of it being young is so good bec. you can do everything especially about teenage group.!
still in teens there is a called LOVE making relationship with others,sharing affections,love.
definitely,if your inlove,you want that you see him everytime,
call you in the phone,misses you all the time,
talks,smiles at you and so many things that both of you will make happy and comfortable.
and when it comes with your question
just give him time to think of it
tell him what is your feeling to him
be open-minded everytime eventhou it hurts
just tell him what you want to say
if you really love him
maybe,your partner dont know what to do bec. hes hot prepared to have new relationship
hes afrid that he might hurt you
he want that your relationship with him is still thesame bec. if you break off with him, possible that the companion together will affect.
accept what he decides,still tell him if your hurt or its okay!
show him the best,the way you are
act what you really is
the best of it
feel to him that he is important, and special in your life.
try to talk with him why he says that he's not sure what to do and then adopt what i have told you..
Godbless
Goodluck
and be happy

Answer 3

take a break sign off with him be friends see how it goes.. sometimes guys hate commitments and get scared although you can love them it still aint enough. they are creatures of habit.. stay away if hes an aquarian they cannot commit.. go with your sign of zodiac for now.. breath and play the field to get over him then if he is there for you adn your still there in love then perhaps take it to the next step but. he aint ready right now.. give him space things are getting to heavy perhaps