There's a girl I really like. Anyways we went out for about two days but she broke it off because of her ex boyfriend issues. She mentioned it as complications but she still likes him.
Anyways I kind of blew it by unloading on her prematurely too much of my feelings after the break up (It was only two days after all so I feel stupid that I did that). By feelings I mean stuff like "O, I may never find another girl like you again".
I think I may have ruined the chance of us being just friends.
She came online briefly after I had sent her an apology saying I was being a jackass and selfish. Anyways we didn't talk for long as she said she was going out and that was it.
When I asked her out I gave her a cd, a compilation of some of my best songs. Do you think I should send her some via email to try to keep in touch? Or would I just be imposing when she is happy with her boyfriend? Or do you think she would appreciate it?
It is some pretty damn good music, if not the best.
2007-01-25 22:05:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
And no I'm not really gonna shoot myself in the face if you're wondering.
2007-01-25 22:05:29 · update #1
I see, I see
2007-01-25 22:21:37 · update #2
arrgg, it's my favorite pirate!
i would just shoot myself in the face, i mean you gave her a mix tape...tsk tsk tsk...
2007-01-25 22:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Shellular Kellular 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah of course you should try to keep in contact. In a few years you could be best friends and may even get back together again. Also if you try to keep in contact but she does not, then at least you have the peace of mind that you tried to talk to her. Apologise again reiterating that what you said was just due to frustation and has nothing to do with you and her breaking up and say if it is possible for you two to get back as being friends again. But give her some time.
2007-01-25 22:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Roger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to back off a bit.
You're way to heavy for such an early stage in the relationship, almost like you're trying to experience a long term relationship in a few days. Hold back from telling any girl how you feel so early on in future.
I don't think this will recover in the near future, but remember, you've got all the time in the world, don't rush into things
2007-01-25 22:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by anto687 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad we all say and do stupide things its human and give it a try send her the music maybe its not working with the boyfriend and if she does not reply than let it go that means she is staying with the boyfriend( ps ) wen you send her the music put a note saying yeah i know i was a jerk but no hard feelings here's some music enjoy
2007-01-25 22:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by lorie v 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. i would give her some breathing space. Just back off for awhile. maybe next time she is on-line just say hi. In a few months maybe you could sorta be friends again but when you like someone and they don't like you in that way it is kinda hard to be friends. I'd go out and make some new friends and maybe find some other girl. And when you find some other girl perhaps don't overload her with too much info and stuff to begin with. let them chase you a bit. i hope this helps.
2007-01-25 22:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 00:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her sort out her issues before you try the heavy stuff with her but tell her you will be there if she wants to talk, if she has not spoken to you for a couple of weeks then move on with your life as there is a chance you did not know her anyway.
Good luck.
2007-01-25 22:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by Bladerunner (Dave) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on with your life cause if you love her you let her go because what i read of it if i was you just say friends and if she does klike you then go fr it asak her back out but dont a silly thing like that shoot you seklf in the face caUSE IF YOU DO she probly blame her self and just dont do it at the end of the day they was more fish in the sea hope you find true love and be happy lacey if you ever want to talk you can email me laceygaskin@yahoo.co.uk
2007-01-25 22:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by lacey g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that would b nice i mean to keep in touch with her n keep sending via emails thats how ull make sure that ur friendship wont b broken n dont forget to ask her about her bf let her feel that u care n am sure things will b better between u 2
2007-01-25 22:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two days!!!Were you drinking at the time?
Seriously, Pirate, I find you fascinating and silly at the sametime.
Stay away!!!! And get on with your life.
2007-01-26 04:41:04 · answer #10 · answered by eva b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you blew it, they got pills for unloading prematurely!
2007-01-25 22:14:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋