i'm i luckly to have found love or to not have love at all ?
i've found love and my biggest fear is losing it .
so is it good that i'm having this feeling or should i feel that i'm unluckely because i have?
i can't enjoy the good times we spend together because the only thing i can think about is losing it .
i'm i being my own worst enemy or what?
2007-01-25 21:10:48 · 16 answers · asked by anniemae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are being your worst enemy. And in the long run your biggest fear may be the reason that you lose love. Chances are you have been hurt in the past, but life goes on. Don't see every relationship that you get in to be like the last. You can't rush love but when you truly find it your guard will come down.
2007-01-25 21:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are being your worst enemy...enjoy the moment and should it not last, at least you will have wonderful memories.....yes it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all......love is a gamble, a risk you take but it is so worth it...don't worry about losing, that will surely sabotage your relationship, just let nature take its course....Good Luck to you and I hope you find the happiness you seek.
2007-01-25 21:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you found love is nice and the presence of the fear of losing it is a natural feeling...but try not to worry about it too much now...enjoy your love as long as u can...make it last long so that you and your partner can enjoy each other's company for a long time...
2007-01-25 21:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to love is to give, to look out for.
sounds like you are jealous and posessive and insecure.
how to beat this is time. and strain to give. and when you find that you enjoy giving to your partner then you have found love. but mind the direction and mind your posessiveness. Its not a race, its just a walk. where it gets tricky is recognizing your path and that of your partners. then you will need to decide what path to take when you get there. but if your plans are already otherwise then maybe you recognize them now. and that is what sponsors your insecurity.
2007-01-25 21:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better shape up girl. What you are doing now is only gonna push him away. Think about it, would you want to be with someone that appers not to enjoy the time spent with you?
2007-01-25 21:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by SANDRA H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes-enjoy the love you have-you need to put all of ur energy into and quit worrying about something that hasnt happened-things are gonna happen whether we prepare for them or not so enjoy what you have and think positive
2007-01-25 21:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some things in this life are inevitable, so you should live this life devoid of fears but with faith and positive thinking so that even when the worst happens you can adjust with minimal pain, good luck
2007-01-25 21:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God...is this what goes on in women's minds when they're supposedly happy? What the hell happens when you're depressed, you want to commit suicide, or what?? Jesus...enjoy what good feelings you have and stop looking for trouble, or you'll find it!!!
2007-01-25 21:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you are. Love comes and goes, sometimes ya lose it and sometimes it loses you. Love is what you make it. Right now you're making it bad. Up to you to make it good. Best of luck to you!
2007-01-25 21:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes luv is the best feeling but don't question it if u contemplate it then maybe its not so. just enjoy it and be happy try not to be so cynical.
2007-01-25 21:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by sdfs s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋