2007-01-25 21:08:20 · 12 answers · asked by rob d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
alright, its like i got something in common with you cause 3 years ago i was the same as you are now. feeling its too hard to find the perfect person who you can share it all with. just be yourself, i found that being myself worked, i am now with a girl and everything is unbeleivable, i was jus myself acting like the gentleman i am. even though your shy obviously one or two drinks in a pub can give you the confidence to give that intersted look to a sexy ladie. all you need is to grab the attention and after that your general self will conquer. by the way i am answering this question for my girlfriend on her profile.
2007-01-25 21:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also a nice guy, who finds it difficult to meet women because I am shy, the best suggestion I can give you mate, is to get out there and join clubs find a hobby, anything to interact with other people who you don't know, this is the scary bit you need to do this on your own and you will soon fine your shyness leaving you as you get more confident to talk to strangers, then it is just a small step to ask a women out on a date.
Good luck mate, and I hope it all goes well for you.
2007-01-25 21:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont think that there has to be someone -just one- fits u and just right for u. but i know there are some people u feel comfertable with and other you dont like .. and once u get married to someone u feel comfertable with, the love will grow as time goes by. also sharing thoughts intrests and ideas will make this relationship stronger and the chance will be high for this couple to be soulmates .. i think this might be the idea of getting married in islam
2016-05-24 01:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u re not shy, u re just not self confident. so build your self confidence. it is done by learning smth what not many people know or can do. like achieving good education, good body, learning some foreign language, learning how to play some sport like golf or tennis or whatever to the excellent level. this will give your confidence a boost, u will be excited about your life and girls like boys excited with their lives. good luck
2007-01-25 22:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bear in mind that many women prefer the quiet type over the brash cocky confident men!
If you're a gentleman then genuine women will see this and you'll have no trouble finding the right mrs for yourself!
Good luck!
xx
2007-01-25 21:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
despite what a lot of girls say they or should i say most them dont like shy guys they like them to have a bit of edge to them i no from experience as i am fairly shy and the girls i have been with have all said they like a bit of bad in a guy i must effusive i am not talking about everygirl her but a majority so best the luck mate i no how you feel
2007-01-25 22:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and don't try to be what you are not, try join clubs or taking up hobbies even walking the dog, anywhere were you can meet people and make friends and maybe start a relationship with them good luck.
2007-01-25 21:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to do whatever you can to overcome your shyness,women like men who are confident and positive,stop being so serious and have some fun,make a woman laugh and you are on your way.
2007-01-25 21:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jut b yourself you want a girl to like you for you not for being somebody else, after all there are plenty of us females out on this earth so really be yourself be clean and a gentleman
2007-01-25 21:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sleep around its the law of averages if you do enough, also you'll have fun on the way (who needs a soul mate anyway as long as your getting some lol)
2007-01-25 21:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by DOM S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋