Im 14 yrs old and ive never had a boyfriend.
recently, ive met this boy.... And i m going crazy about him.
i didn't read a lot of romance novels- until he showed up. now all im looking at is romance novels, and im trying to use those books as love lessons or something. Im really nervous when he's around, and whenever i do something stupid, i think "s***! I just blew my chance to get him to like me!"
Is this ... NORMAL??
Ive had a lot of crushes, but nothing as intense as this. AND I'VE MET HIM ONLY ABOUT 6 TIMES!!
and what's worst?
he's moving to another country this summer.
should i try to stop liking him because it's just "puppy love" that will end quickly or should i just tell him i like him?
advice, please :(
2007-01-25 20:59:42 · 13 answers · asked by wordsofapoet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 14 too! were just like on the same situation and im crazy about my crush also.. my crush is always staring at me and my friends noticed it too. your feelings are normal for a 14 yrs old girl. im am also nervous in front of my crush but if you really like him, try to experiment some situations that will make both of you really good friends for the first step,for example, try to ask him about your project if he knows something about it,or ask him some questions and say to him that it is a part of your homework and you need help. im also planning this kind of situation, but im too shy to do these...because of my shyness,my friends say that they will do these things for me and i think your friends too can make a lot of help. but dont do things that will make your crush disappointed and things that are annoying..try to make these in a good timing for better results. you said that he's moving another country, its too sad for your part because you cant see him anymore for the next school year.. but dont lose hope because you can communicate with him through internet or letter. just try to make things that will make you friends before he leaves to your country,... i hope that youll be good friends as soon as possible! dont lose hope! i know you can do it...!! be brave enough so that he will recognize you! by the way, if there are some improvements, email me at annika178@yahoo.com
good luck!!
2007-01-25 21:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by annika178 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It is just Puppy Love. Yes! You should hold off on showing your feelings. Let him know that you are wanting to keep in touch. Even if it is by Hard Mail. But you're only 14. You have plenty of chances to be in Love. But wait until you are an Adult. Before you start thinking that you are. Love is for Grown Ups. If you try to rush it. You're gonna end up like so many other Teens. He'll be your Friend. He may be back to be someone, Special. But not until you've had the chance to Grow Up.
2007-01-25 21:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations. Welcome to puberty. Yes, this is perfectly normal and it's all part of your new hormones. Don't worry, it'll go away in a decade or so. Until then, you get to be crazy. ;-) ;-) ;-)
The best thing that you can do is to relax and be yourself. Consider this a learning experience for future relationships and try to have some fun (but not TOO much, if you know what I mean ;-) with him. If it works out, great. If not, that's too bad. Do NOT let yourself get too wrapped up with him, given that he's leaving. You'll only be hurting yourself, so keep it light and casual. The wonderful romantic fantasies are nice, but they're probably going to make it harder, not easier to do this.
2007-01-25 21:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on you are a young thing.. And it is 100% common at 14 years old. now you are in a tender adolesent age. there are so many internal harmonal changes within you.. and its possible that all the changes in your body is affecting your reaction to guys.. at 14 from a child you are in the process of turning into a teenager and trust me you are gonna have so many more crushes.
what you are having right now is an infactation, its a phase and will pass away. right now you are constantly thinking of him beacuse your brain is exploring... it is a phase and you will slowly ease into the feelings you have. And at a stage you will get insync with your body and coordinate perfectly... but you have got to wait... it is a long process
In saying that, till he leaves there is no harm in going out for a frappaccino and hanging out as friends
2007-01-25 21:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HeLLooooooooooooooo,, u r only 16..
live your life,, have all the fun that u can,,
just go out,, don't think about him that muich, have fun,, go to movies,, parties,, study, read books,, even finding another BF..
2007-01-25 21:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no, no, no. you may soak the wood. you may stroke the wood. you may laminate the wood. you may varnish the wood. you may stain the wood. you will be able to additionally wax the wood. you may gently sand the wood. yet on no account, ever crush the wood. What a shame! *Edit* And for God's sake, do no longer forget to buff the wood!
2016-11-01 08:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by stever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw bless ya thats a hard one, it sounbds like you really like him but its horrible to get your hopes up when his moving to be honest i would just leave it and ask him if there is any way of keeping in touch as friends.
2007-01-25 21:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is moving to another country, and you being so young, i dont think it will work.All its gonna come to is probably a quickie
2007-01-25 21:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by lesuiremike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll suggest you to tell him, try to be friends with him. Plans might change? who knows. goodluck.
2007-01-25 21:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by quincy m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just smooch him on his lips and say i love u
2007-01-25 21:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by pratyay s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋