what is the best way to tell your boyfrend its over?

Question

even though he hits you sometimes
told the police about it didnt do nothing

i llife with him aswell
it cost me about 10 per week to buy his beer
and yesterday i had somone round for the gas
and he told them about a flood what happened and he throws it in my face every so offenden

i'm not ameriacan
i am from the uk

Answer 1

Just tell them you have realised he is too ugly and stupid for you

Answer 2

You need to be stern, confident, and sincere. Let him know you are leaving, you are not going to be abused by him any longer, you will get a restraining order against him if he pursues you and you do not want any resistance from him or the authorities will be present when you remove your items from the home. If he is the type that you fear telling him of your plans to part, it's best if you pack up and leave when he is not around and cannot cause any trouble during your exit. You know him best. For your safety and out of self respect, you need to follow through with your plans and remember you deserve to be treated with love and care. Hitting is only a start to a lifetime of abuse and eventually possible death. Go and go now! Thank God that you are strong!

Answer 3

Don't tell him, please, just go. Leave no trail. If you tell him, he will likely blow up and hurt you even more so that you will be unable to go. He will know why you have left, but to give him notice of what you plan is to ask for more trouble. Personally, I have a cast iron fry pan,about a 14" one. It is not for cooking. I let all my boyfriends know from the beginning. that should they hit me. make it good or never go to sleep in my presence again. The pan is for pay backs, and I don't make idle threats. Right or wrong..I don't care . It is too late to educate the goon you live with, cut your loses while you still can and get out fast!! Too many people never get a second chance to leave. And by all means, if you have kids, take them with you! God speed and bless you.

Answer 4

Girl stop making excuses for your pity life! There's options...First don't tell him you want out...you don't owe him an explanation after the way he's treated you...go to the police, make a report. Go live with a loved one (family or friend) and get a restraining order against the bastard. I hate when women accept abusive men... You better leave him before your top 3 remaining teeth falls off! LMAO!

Answer 5

What! You are still with someone that hits you? NOT!
If you feel you can't break away by yourself, get help. Alternatives to Violence can help and get you out and safe and let things calm down.
Police see everything everyday and sometimes they just don't get it. You have to want to press charges and if you don't then you are saying it's okay for him to hit me...you have to be the one that wants the change.
Contact Alternatives to Violence in your area and follow their recommendations. That way I'm sure you are getting safe and accurate information.

Answer 6

After the way he treated u, i think u dun have to tell him anything. Just packed ur stuff and leave. A guy shldn't hit a girl in any way, that means he doesn't respect u at all...just go...why bother wasting ur time and talk to him somemore?

Answer 7

if he hits you then just move out, or he may threaten you to stay. do you have an older brother or cousin? get them involved, sounds like he needs some educating on the treatment of those you love.

Answer 8

Uh girl, I tell ya,,, just tell him right on his face "ey, it's over..." then burst out all the reasons you can find. seriously,, why'd you even like the guy? =(

Answer 9

Since you have no brains and can't seem to tell this jackass it's over then you deserve to stay with him.

Answer 10

pack his stuff outside the door, and when he comes in tell him its over, you've taken enough of his crap, good luck tho, and best if you have afriend over when he comes home