Can someone please tell me how I can keep my man even though I am a sex adict. I don't wanna cheat but sometimes he just can't keep up. And if I'm not satisfied I will call someone else to finish the job!
2007-01-25 20:16:45 · 19 answers · asked by Jenifer P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had to say sex addict the first time i wrote they erased my question I guess it was too obsene but you know what i am.
2007-01-25 20:25:07 · update #1
Why are these women so judgemental? At least I'm honest with myself about what I am!!!!!
2007-01-25 20:28:10 · update #2
Is he really your man?do you love him?if yes then you should be able to talk to him about your addiction to sex...then together you can find ways to satisfy you when he cannot keep up.maybe help you masturbate,use sex toys....whatever.but not calling up whoever is available to come finish up the job.
that makes you a whore.and imagine that someone teasing him that he cant even satisfy his woman....that is a real blow to any man's self esteem.
point is, communication is the key.
2007-01-25 20:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by Fresh and Funky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One can understand your problem but there should be a sense of propriety. there is nothing impossible in today's medical world and in fact it is a normal situation. talk to your man and convince him to go to a doctor. it could be resolved in a matter of days not months.
looking at others for satisfaction may be an immediate solution, its repurcussions may not be that satisfying. Not only that reputation comes out slowly and steadily but is difficult to recover. Talk to a doctor and if the problem persist, take a new route instad of cheating that would hurt you in the long run
2007-01-26 04:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kehgohar R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some toys and grow up. You don't sound like you love your man. Maybe you shouldn't be with him.
If you are truly a sex addict, as in... you have been diagnosed by a psychiatrist... then you should be getting treatment.
2007-01-26 04:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer - become a prostitute.
If you love sex SO much your not prepared to do the right thing, why not get paid for it?
Or else try taking some bromide suppliments, it will supress your sex drive.
2007-01-26 04:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man accepts you for the sex addict that you are! You should accept him for the not-so-sex addict that HE IS! Haven't you heard of SELF CONTROL? If you really want to keep him, you'll look up that word in the dictionary!
2007-01-26 04:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by Linger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear
You should better aproach a psychologist.
It is not the love you have with your man, You wanted to fullfill your sexual urge.If this is the way you may end up in problems
2007-01-26 04:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by sudha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use toys, masturbate, get yourself off before you start on him. If you still dont get enough, get him to take you to a swingers club. There you can get all the sex you can handle, and he can participate as much as he wants.
2007-01-26 04:27:01 · answer #7 · answered by Thunderstruck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhmmm, try dating a psychiatrist. That way you might be able to get both kinds of help you need.
2007-01-26 04:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um maybe you should get toys or something. that way you arent using other guys and cheating on the man who loves you. or get professional help. like therapy.
2007-01-26 04:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by flamemaster_lang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be single. You don't love the guy you're with and you're wasting his time and yours. There's someone out there who can take care of all your needs. Do what you do babe.
2007-01-26 04:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋