I met a nice respectable girl , and she is interested in me. All that interests me is her hot body. I want to know if it is alright if I ask her if she wants to make love. and how do I approach a question like that?
2007-01-25 19:50:25 · 15 answers · asked by daniel a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its definitely uncool to lead a girl on, especially with intentions of a sexual nature.
Tell her the truth that you want a no strings attached relationship. Simple as that. Feigning emotion will be disastarous for you both. Forget the morality aspect(as it may differ among many cultures and religions), this is about being unselfish.
You'll be glad you did it.
2007-01-25 20:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by bones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Miss Lafa. If you are only interested in sexual relations with her and you are certain it could never be anything more then asking her out for a date would be leading her on. If she is looking for something deeper she will appreciate your openness and being honest about not wanting to lead her on and possibly hurting her in the future. So many women today are looking for the exact same thing that you may find she is quite interested in that as well. If not it is unfair to head down a road you already know only one of you might want to go down.
2007-01-25 20:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by pieeatinguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a respectable girl the last thing she wants to do is sleep with you, if that's all your interested in her for. There are plenty of prostitutes out there, leave this girl alone all your doing is wasting her time and yours. Unless you want to get cussed out, slapped, and maybe stomped to death I wouldn't ask her. You'd be saving yourself a world of hurt.
2007-01-25 19:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is delicate ways of doing things, and maybe asking her out right would not be the appropiate way - how intrested in you is she? she may not want to be with you she may only want to sleep with you also? however if she does want more then i would suggest not asking her as this will give her false impressions on the way you feel about her and, will only cause her hurt!?
2007-01-25 19:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by kaznmolly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's interested in you for more than your body then it's not fair to ask her to sleep with you. even if you both agree that there's no strings, it's very difficult to separate sex from emotion. if you don't have the same feelings for her then be honest and walk away. if you're just after sexual gratification, have a look in your local paper under adult services.
2007-01-25 20:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by J L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the girl. You cnt sleep with the entire Yaho forum.
2007-01-25 19:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by tony01p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow if you have a guilty conscience than I would say tell her what your looking for (not about the sex) but relationship wise. In other words proposition her about a "casual" relationship. You tell her you like her you just don't want commitment.
2007-01-25 19:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jesse B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you don't want to "make love." You just want to have sex. Unless your just another lying son-of-a-gun, please don't use the "L" word.
Say "You know, I don't love you, but I'd be more than happy to spend time with you - no strings attached."
Won't you be sorry when you find out she only liked you because she thought you'd tie her down... *LOL*
2007-01-25 19:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about, "Hi, I really like you but I am not looking for a long commitment. Would you consider being sex buddies?"
It will work or it won't.
2007-01-25 19:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out with it - girls just love that lol
2007-01-25 19:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋