My step mom married my dad who was divorced.?

Question

She insist it is not a sin for her only for my dad is this true?
She treats me like Cinderella is that Christian?
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Answer 1

well that is a sin she committed aldultary with your father. well the treament you are getting I don't know. It sound like you are a spoilbrt and should get a life. Or either your mother is in denial.

Answer 2

It takes a lot of investigation to determine whether or not the first marraige of your dad was a legitimate marriage. Making vows before God implies that one is capable of maintaining the vows for life. Some people are not equipped to undertake such a covenant. There are many other reasons that render a marriage null, provided that it can be proven that no marriage exists, even though they went through the motions.

Your step mom is wrong. Being legally divorced only covers the states criteria, not God's. The Church does not have the authority to cancel a marraige, but the Church can determine if the marriage was offtrack to the point of not existing. It's difficult to explain.

Your step-mom is one flesh with her husband. The divorce is not a sin, it's the remarriage that is a sin if they marry without the certainty of an annulment. So your step-mom is sleeping with a married man, making her no less guilty that her husband.

Supposing your dad's ex-wife was an serial axe murderer drug addict with 100 cats in the freezer. He gets a divorce and marries your step-mom. Lets assume the marriage is legitimate, according to your understanding and beliefs. Since they are one flesh, your step-mom has no right to say it's all his. But the point I am trying to make is, how real is this alleged sin supposed to be?

Matt. 5:31-32 - the Lord permits divorce only for "porneia." This Greek word generally means unlawful sexual intercourse due to either blood relations (also called incest) or nonsacramental unions. The Lord does not permit divorce for "moicheia" (adultery). It is also important to note that in these cases, a marriage never existed in the first place, so the Lord is not actually permitting divorce, but a dissolution of the unlawful union.

Eph. 5:22-32 - Paul says that the sacramental union of husband and wife is the image of Christ and the Church. Just as Christ the Bridegroom and His Bride the Church are inseparable, so are a husband and wife also inseparable. A civil divorce cannot dissolve a sacramental marriage (between two baptized people).

1 Cor. 7:12-15 - these verses set forth what the Church calls the "Pauline privilege" - two unbaptized people marry, and afterwards one of the people is baptized. If the unbaptized person decides to leave the marriage, the Christian is free to remarry (because the first marriage was not sacramental, and a union between a baptized and an unbaptized person can jeopardize the baptized person's faith).

Do you mean she treats you like one of Cinderellas big sisters did? Step-mom's can insert their upbringing into a family where everything is done differently, and everybody has to make adjustments. When the adjustments become too much to bear, get some counselling.
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Answer 3

depends on the reason for the divorce. if your mother cheated on him then she murdered the marriage and that fulfilled the till death do us part vow that your father made. If she started dating him when he was married and knew it and helped to cause the divorce then she is just as guilty as him.

Never the less none of these circumstances mother, father, stepmother would be under the heading of the unforgivable sin.
It is very, very, very hard to live a perfect life and you are bound to trip sooner or later. but all you have to do is pick yourself up, ask for forgiveness, dust yourself off and start all over again.

makes you do all the work for the whole family, so that someday you will make a good mother and end up with a prince?
lemons into lemonade.

Answer 4

It's a sin. We live in a world that is filled with sin...only those that really want to be Christians are...the other part lives to do everything without thinking if is bad or not. Take good care of your soul,dear!

If you want some good answers, pray and read the Bible!

Answer 5

It depends on if God has convicted your father for remarrying. If not then, no it isn't a sin. What might be right for one person, may not be right for another. God convicts people of different things. He may convict someone to stop smoking and then not convict another person who does it. It isn't very Christian like for her to be mean and ruthless towards you, if that is how she is being. She is supposed to set an example of how a Christian should live. I don't know how she treats you, what you may take as her being the "wicked stepmother" may just be her trying to teach you morals and values, even if that includes having chores.

Answer 6

Betty Boop is so much hotter than cinderella, seh will burn in hell for sure!

Answer 7

Tell her it is no sin for either of them, and ahem, the Cinderella part, that says she is mean, Christian or not.
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Answer 8

If she is such a Christian, that believes a divorced person cannot remarry, than what kind of Christian is she, if she is mean to you.
Your dad is not sinning, she is.

Answer 9

Well, why would you want to serve God if He would nitpick about something so trivial as whether or not you loved someone who was divorced.I think God has more important things to worry about.

Answer 10

IF THE FIRST PART WAS ACTUALLY TRUE IS THERE NOT A THING CALLED GUILT BY ASSOCIATION and no you should not treat anyone poorly