There is a girl I met and we became friends. We never wanted a relationship with each other and were content as friends.
One day we were having lunch and we began to talk, and just at that moment it hit us that we both really liked each other. We started to spend more time together over the next couple of weeks and our feelings developed. We had the friendship behind us and got along very well. Problem is she had a friend in another state that she needed to see if their were feelings between her and him. She went over New Years to find out if she did or didnt have romantic feelings. She came back even more confused and says she does not want a relationship with me or him.
We still hang out and I have told her exactly how I feel. She has trouble telling me her feelings but says she cares for me. I have never felt for anyone like I do for her and I'm confused as what to do. Walk away or hang around? Am I being played? Is it that hard of a decision for girls to make?
2007-01-25 19:42:40 · 7 answers · asked by Robert S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should go back to being friends. Talk to her about how much her friendship means to you, and you dont want this to get in the way of what you had before.
TAKE IT SLOWLY. Hopefully, (probably), old feelings will return for both of you, and you can then take it from there.
Hope this helps!
2007-01-25 19:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-24 01:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is an easy decision, and sometimes it is a hard decision. I would say to still be there as a friend, but to not wait around. If you force her to make a decision, she will push you away. If things are meant to happen between you two, they will. Perhaps she does not want a relationship with either of you because she is afraid of hurting either of you, and does not want to risk the loss of a friendship, no matter which way her decision is.
2007-01-25 19:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only a hard decision to make if she is the type of girl that wants her cake and eat it too. Your best bet is to just remain friends with her and maybe one day she will see you differently until then Good Luck.
2007-01-25 19:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea,its hard to decide who to go with especially if they are both treating u well.she is confused b'se she liked u 1st as a friend&now a fiance.so she is afraid to hurt u but at the same time she loves s'one else.So the ball is in your hands;either compete with the other guy or give up.
2007-01-25 19:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. A girl can not love two men. Ask her. She knows who she loves.
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2007-01-25 20:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by manjari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
played!
2007-01-25 19:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋