I met this girl online, she wants to be my mistress. I wouldn't say I am not tempted to say yes because she's hot, but at the same time how do you allow one to be your mistress when you've never had this type of relationship expirience?
I am more of a passionate type of person but she wants me to take control of her, make her my ***** or slave, these are her words! How does one do this when one is used to having a more passionate type of relationship?
Help before she books the next plane out here.
Thank you
2007-01-25 19:34:39 · 17 answers · asked by walubengo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Browse some forums where that kind of relationship is the focus. Fetish groups will usually have it, or you will find where to look.
You only live once, so try it, but, it may not be something you can fully deal with everyday. I found that lifestyle intriguing at one point, but I am passionate like you, so I never chose to persue. I still might one day, but I would rather find someone who would want to cuddle on the couch all the time, and maybe play once in a while a little like that.
For you to be dominant, you shoud study. Read this book, it is quite extreme, but it gives you an idea, it was recommended to me and it helped me step back my desire to go after that type of life a bit. 'The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty' by Anne Rice writing as A. N. Roquelaure. It is the first of a three part trilogy, but I only had to read the first couple chapters to understand a bit more of it.
It is a whole different world. She may not end up happy if you cannot be her master the way she likes it, but you will be forever changed by making you see things in a different way, whether it is your thing or not.
2007-01-25 19:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by just another guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you are a female. Tell the lesbo to call stanley steamer to steam up her carpet. If you make that chioce your gonna get brainwashed into a man haten b-tch they all do. Thats right it's a brainwashen by them carpet licken male haten poor excuse of a women.
My sister got into that **** I got a chance over 15 years to meet a whole slew of lesbo's.
Their a damn trip. most all have either been sexually abused by their father,brother,uncle, or grandfather, or been raped, or been screwed over by some guy. Then they think all men are this way and like the idiots they are devise this defense mechanism to support and justify their twisted sexuality. Stay straight have children and grow old normally. Rather Than die a lonely lesbian, because that is the nature of their relationships: constantly broken. Only once in a while does a couple stay together. The older lesbian also feast on the young female , because it is brainwashing and perpitration.
Trust me on this one
2007-01-25 19:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO! that's funny......
Well be her *********. Pull out them whips & cuffs from your closet and lay them out on the bed for when she arrives.
Get your big ole' dildos out and be naughty so she can slam it against your a.s.s. like the dirty filthy w.h.o.r.e you are (ooops, I thought I was your Mistress for a second there) LOL
But seriously, if you're not bisexual / lesbian then I would not recoommend this. Especially knowing you've never had such experience. Go with your heart. If you're not comfortable, don't do it. Tell the hawt *********. to book the next ticket to me...oops I mean book the tickets to someone with experience who is into domination. Good Luck and behave or she'll spank you...HARD! LOL
2007-01-25 19:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Q & A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like this woman has some real issues to deal with.
You know, sometimes the best warning sign is a gut feeling. And obviously you're having one. You need to get it out of your mind right now that she's "hot". That has nothing to do with it. Are you going to let animal instincts override your good sense? If you consent to this, you're asking for alot of needless problems down the road that you're going to have to face and deal with. If this is what you want to do for the sake of her being "hot", then by all means proceed. But if you want to prevent alot of trouble, then I suggest you disassociate yourself from this woman and tell her to move on.
2007-01-25 22:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by C J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it fairly is humorous the way you decide on for the be conscious fable. It sounds such as you're "fantasing". What has by no skill been provided before yet i might fantasize that it could provide you extra power.
2016-12-12 20:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever see the movie Play Misty for Me? Even I can feel the weird vibes from here.
2007-01-25 19:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters your asking a question about your situation and a great start indeed - You have no Idea what you may really be getting into - Thing's are not always what they appear to be ! You sound like a really caring person --- Caution - - Please
2007-01-25 19:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get a big double dong dildo and stick it up both of your vaginas at the same time. That should kill two birds with one stone. Good luck
2007-01-25 19:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think you should skip this one and find someone more your style...........I think you just find the "idea" of her exciting but when reality hits you won't be happy with her
2007-01-25 19:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by irish eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should at least try bumping uglies at least once! Maybe you'll enjoy it way more then you can even imagine!
GL!
'-)
2007-01-25 19:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋