Im 17 and i have never had one in my life. Im also a virgin but im wondering if i should get a gf.
2007-01-25 19:32:41 · 20 answers · asked by chequas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel you are ready sure, why not? But don't do it just because you think you have to.
Be choosy, and not in a hurry, find somebody nice. Sex is important but it ain't everything.
2007-01-25 19:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes Dear, I think it's time you stuck your neck out! Seriously, I think it is absolutely fantastic that you have waited. I think if you kids would all wait until you are old enough to deal with the issues that can be associated with having a real, personal, physical relationship with the opposite sex, we wouldn't have so many of you confused and in situations that are now desperate and draining you emotionally and physically.
Anyway, Back to your issue. Yes, if you have waited until now, then I think you can trust yourself enough to go with what you are feeling inside. If you think it's time, then it's time! You must have someone in mind I think. Am I right? Something brought this on now, you know what I mean? Either way, I say yes, go for it! But, don't go and get all promiscuous now. Keep your head about you, and protect yourself always. NEVER, ever, have unprotected sex! You just simply cannot do that today, OK.
Well, I wish I could be a, "fly on the wall" so to speak! I wish you the very best of luck Honey. May all your dreams come true.
Your friend on line, Terry
2007-01-25 19:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by Terry Ranaye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself these questions. Why do you need a girlfriend? Do you need one because you want to have a sexual expirience or do you need one because most people of your age have had one or more girlfriends? Do you need this girl as a friend or as a someone yo share the intimate interest with or have the attraction for?
I am hoping that you aren't ashamed beacause you are a virgin and that is why you are opting to this. Being yourself should count more than anything.
This is something that will happen and come naturally when the time is ready and for the right reasons.
Goodluck
2007-01-25 19:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by walubengo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girlfriend is not something you acquire like a pair of shoes. When you feel a connection with someone, and you want to take it past a friendship level, then yes. Do not go looking for something it will come to you. As for the virgin part, Save it until you are ready, and feel a connection. As cliche as that sounds, it really is better with someone you love. It is something to treasure, and when you find the right person, they will know it is a treasure, and will wait for you until you are ready.
2007-01-25 20:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-25 20:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by manjari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF!!!! Theres nothing less attractive than a guy who pretends to be something they are not. Its also sweet that u r a virgin, hopefully u find someone who is also one so u can explore and experiment together. Remember DO NOT RUSH INTO ANYTHING!!!! Get to know that person first before u move to the next level.
2007-01-25 19:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by Base blonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a hurry. Build your life,develop skills, learn a martial art, ect. You should do these things first and a girlfriend will bog you down at this point in your life (and keep your from growing, most likely).
2007-01-25 19:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok..properly, i do no longer comprehend how previous you're, yet once you're sixteen or over, this is not a relationship..human beings in relationships that essentially care approximately one yet another see one yet another constantly. maximum couples see one yet another on a daily basis! once you're youthful, then purely understand that in case you're no longer pleased with the way issues are, you will be able to desire to speak to this woman approximately her loss of enthusiasm concerning the relationship. solid success!
2016-11-01 08:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say dont get a girl if ur going to college because they'll get in ur way...u know girls they want to spend time with u all the time!..so finish college cuz girls will always be there...and honestly u never know. u might meet a girl in college or in near future.
2007-01-25 19:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by OOOYEA! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really need one? i want a girlfriend because my friends have one? am i ready to have one? am i ready to loose my virginity? ask your self those questions. then get back to me i'll give more advice....
2007-01-25 19:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by silvergolfaustralia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋