is it time to break up? If you have been dating someone for 9 months, but have lost that attaction a few months ago, is it time to break up? Does anyone else feel this way?
2007-01-25 18:04:43 · 15 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I don't feel the same way..I have been with the same guy since 1993..and have known him since 1990..and from the first moment I laid my eyes on him..I have had nothing but fire hot attraction for him..he is one genuinely sexy, totally attractive man.. both physically, mentally, and in every way possible..
If you have lost the attraction for the person you are dating, in any or all aspects, it is time for you to cut your losses now and move on..Save the other person the heartache..better to be honest, it will help you both in he long run...
2007-01-25 18:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you lost it a few mos. ago I would say it's time to break up. If it was just a temp. thing your attraction and feelings for her would have returned by now. Don't waste time for both of you. Gently break it off and move on.
2007-01-25 18:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, and expected that the "infatuation" stage of a relationship should wear off very quickly. Just because you no longer have the urge to tear their clothes off the second you see them doesn't mean you don't love them. Or maybe you just don't love them. Have you gotten to know them and decided that they are not the person you want to be with? If so, then yeah, a breakup is probably inevitable. I have not lost the attraction to my boyfriend. He just annoys me. I have felt that way previously though.
2007-01-25 18:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you definitely dont have feeling for that person at all. Like you can actually go days not thinking about that person, then its time to break up. Thats what happen to my ex-and I, i didnt feel nothing for him after 7 months. You just know it.
2007-01-25 18:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is time to break up, because what is the point of being with someone if you are not attracted to them?
2007-01-25 18:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to be honest with her. She may feel the same way. It's natural to lose some interest after a while. Go have sex with her!
Good Luck!
'-)
2007-01-25 19:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is time. Don't waste time if you don't feel anything for them. It isn't fair to either of you. I wasted way too much time in a relationship like that.
2007-01-25 18:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by so_silly_me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does happen. That "attraction" is called infatuation. Infatuations come and go. The most important question is if you enjoy their company and if they are like your best friend. If so, it COULD mean that you are truly in love.
2007-01-25 18:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by Whateva 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, I think attraction to someone is really important!
2007-01-25 18:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly not! You should be sincere because love involves feelings and emotions... true love never fades
2007-01-25 18:11:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋