im in michigan now i have no job, i live with my gfs parents,no car no id(not much 2 lose),but im on probation & im not sure how shes gonna react.in fl i have a guarantee job a place 2 stay til i get on my feet,but my gf wont go with me & i have alot of friends with me
2007-01-25 18:04:33 · 10 answers · asked by randy s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're on probation, doesn't that mean you can't leave the state without permission?
I think it's really what's in your heart and if you feel your g/f is meant for you. If you see yourself with her in 10 years or getting married sometime, then I'd say stay. If you don't see a future with her, then I would go. I also think that if she's not willing to move there with you, then maybe she feels you aren't the one. Although, she may have other reasons like moving away from family and not having as much stability living in Florida. It all depends on the situation there if you let your relationship have influence in your decision making.
If you stay with her, find a job, any job. It may definitely not be what you want, but at least you have a paycheck coming in and you're not just another indention on the couch at home. Maybe her parents or your friends can give you rides to work.
2007-01-25 18:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and fore most get everything straight with your P.O. Second theres alot of hot babes in Florida and a mans gota do what a mans gota do so start a new life in Florida sounds like you have had problems in Michigan. Don't do that in Florida the jails and prisons are full and rough but they will make room for you if you F### up!
2007-01-26 02:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meaningless Present Vs. Hopefull future, Only you can decide. Or in the words of The Clash: Should I stay or should I go?
2007-01-26 02:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend you to stay because there are reasons your gf does not want to follow you....get a job first and enough money before you move....
2007-01-26 02:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no venture no gain.u've to try anything within ur capability.it's no harm to go there 4 a trial rather than staying in ur gf house 4 doing nothing.
2007-01-26 02:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The part that caught my eye was the "probation". If that is court ordered probation,then you cannot leave. Otherwise, if you want to go, then go.
2007-01-26 02:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really cares about you she will understand that this is the best choice for you. Sit her down and talk to her about it. Communication is the best tool for a relationship.
2007-01-26 02:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by Whateva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i lived in floda..vary nice place, but make sure you have enough to make it back
2007-01-26 02:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by sock_masta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO! Make yourself happy!
2007-01-26 02:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you need to go to fla. when you make somthing there of yourself your girl will follow
2007-01-26 02:09:44 · answer #10 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋