Theres this guy, hes my friends boyfriends best friend. We hung out a few times and he said he liked me and would call me but he never did. The next time we hung out he said he was sorry but he didnt want to call because he didnt know me well enough. Then after that night he said he would call me, he said he promised and if he didnt I would never have to speak to him again. Now Im 20 and havent had many relationships, all my friends say he likes me but I dont know what to think. We havent done anything and I dont know what to do. Help please?
2007-01-25 18:01:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he really does like you, he probably will call. n
2007-01-25 18:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't let him dis-honor you like that! I would just continue on with your life. If he really wants a real relationship with you he would come to you! He would not play these mind games that he is playing. Forget about his guy and be your own person, there are other great guys out there that will not play so many mind games with you! Let me suggest what you should look for in a guy: 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Strong Communication. Like in my five biblical principles for finding your soul mate:
1. Does he love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does he honor you? Will he do things just to make you happy? Will he try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust him to the fullest? He is your best friend and you are his? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? He understands you like he could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29
To Sum it up: Stick to 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication and I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process.God Bless!
2007-01-25 18:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have some mental defect that he cant dial the phone.Wake up hes not realy that into ya but sex probably isnt out of the question if you need some call him!
2007-01-25 18:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age old question. If he's a good person, he does. If he forgot, he doesn't. Guys have horrible memories. Maybe he lost your number too lol. If he calls you back he likes you, but if he doesn't call back he doesn't necessarily NOT like you. It's twisted. I know.
2007-01-25 18:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Whateva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he trys to avoid you alot in person, then he dont like you. But just cause he dont call you dont mean anything. I get girls numbers all the time if i like them, but never call them. If you like him, tell him that you do. You'll never get anywhere if you don't act.
2007-01-25 18:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by wickerpark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't judge a guy who loves via calling,and concerning ur non having relationship at ur age,that should not be a problem coz the patience dog eat the fatest bone. please try to study him or any guy closely before creating any ralationship coz some relationship s'times end in disagreement,so be wise and careful.
2007-01-25 18:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by olawale michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will call. Don´t worry. Don´t b in a hurry. It´s always better 2 go slow with the things!!
2007-01-25 18:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by wanna b me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will either call you soon because he cant stop thinking about you
OR
he will call later because he doesnt want to seem desperate.
2007-01-25 18:06:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very immature. He gave you his word that he would call you and then gave you an excuse as to why he didn't. I wouldn't bother with this guy if I were you.
2007-01-25 18:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by Shayna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are just caught up in their own lives. they are so bussy and forgget, or sometimes if a guy does like u then he is too nervous to call, if he is shy.
2007-01-25 18:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by Kane69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is taking time,but he will call you.
2007-01-25 18:09:11 · answer #11 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋