Guys .... If a girl slept with you on the 1st date, but you really liked her, would you continue to date her?

Question

Especially if you didn't think this was a regular thing for her to do?

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Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

Yes, I would continue to date her, but to be perfectly honest with you.........A guy DOES lose a little respect for a girl if she gives it up on the first date. I am only telling you this due to several personal experiences. No worry, because the lack of respect can be made up within the month. FYI, if the girl sleeps with a guy on the first date, then decides to not give it up for the next month, you will also be able to tell a lot about the guy if he doesn't want to see the girl within the month. In other words.......A guy might look elsewhere or get pissed off if you give it up right away, then take it away. This is not the girl's fault, and the guy should be judged on this occasion.....I'm rambling now, but I think I deserve 10 points and answered your question with complete experience and honesty. Best of luck.

Answer 3

Hey, the man also slept with the girl on the first date. Why is it OK for him and some kind of crime for her? Time to come out of the dark ages and stop blaming and judging women for their sexuality especially when we let men get away with everything under the sun.

Any man who finds this a problem is thinking with what is between his legs and probably does not respect any woman.

Answer 4

Yes, I probably would. Of course it is conditional on the situation though. but most likely if I liked her enough to date her a second time I would have been already able to tell if she genuinely likes me. But Lyndsey, If you are asking this concerning your own actions that have already happened or are yet to happen; I, if I were you, which would definitely take a lot of cosmetiics, surgery and imagination, would not sleep with him if I was having these feelings. It means you are not ready for this and are not invested enough in the relationship to full-out make this decision. If You have already slept with him, go to the clinic and get yourself tested for STD's , first. Second, if he's still interested in you, go hang out with him some more, but deny him sex for at least two days, and see how interested he still is. If he still wants to be friends, he's good, unless he's reading this. Try to keep the relationship as platonic as possible but it is always nice to indulge yourselves.

Answer 5

You know what they say: you can't turn a hoe into a housewife. However, I would probably continue to date the girl simply because it's an easy hit it, hit it, hit it and quit it. Moreover, under special cirumstances, if the girl had a really great personality and I saw that she wasn't some trashy skank I would give her a chance but if you want a guy to respect you, you gotta respect yourself and if a guy really likes you he won't mind waiting for you. If he's not willing to wait it's cause he's only after one thing..(sorry fellow dudes). I hope this helps.

Answer 6

This Always Boggles my mind ..What is with YOU MEN CALLING WOMEN WHORES IF THEY SLEEP WITH YOU ON THE FIRST DATE??? WHAT DOES THAT MAKE YOU ??? IF YOU SLEPT WITH A WOMAN ON THE FIRST DATE ??? YOU ARE NO BETTER THAN A MALE WHORE TOO I Thought it takes TWO to tango No ???....Advice for near future ... If you are Not Sure about someone dont sleep with them.... if you are going to label them a whore or an easy person.... Personally I dont sleep around and I wait at least a month or longer to SLEEP with someone get to know them First , and see if things can prosper and grow into more...... Love is a Process Not a Destination

Answer 7

Hard to answer. If she's a whore then no. If that's a really special thing to her, then yes. Talk to her about it. See if she sleeps around a lot, but don't get it from her friends or anything. They'll just tell her and you'll be in big trouble. Communication is the best tool for a relationship anyway, so if it obviously bothers you that much then tell her your concerns. It's never too early to start talking, but it is possible for it to be too late.

Answer 8

continue to sleep with, probably. date? no. in the back of my mind, i'll be thinkin about other guys she went on "first dates" with.

part of the fun is the chase, the anticipation, growin somewhat emotionally attached (in the sense where i want to give her a great time). you can't match those feelings in the first shot.

i dunno, i'm sorry to say, but i want to have to work for a girl to trust me with her body. i probably won't date a girl i slept with after the first date. i would think she just wants a booty call.

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in response to seldom seen--i respect women, but the women i DATE, i want to be able to trust emotionally and physically. i'll give them the world and also the slothes off my body if they needed it.

if it's just sex, than it's just sex. sex is more enjoyable when you want to make it as pleasureable for your partner as possible. it's great to learn another person's body. when you date and get to know the person, you start makin love. if it's just a first date, than you're just f*ckin like rabbits. it's an animal instinct that has to get satisfied. there's no love, no caring about the other person the first night. you hardly know the other person! in essence, you're gettin physically intimate with a stranger you've just met.

Answer 9

Haha.. I know this question. Being asked by friends before, hmm.. It's actually hard to decide. I would say, continue dating her and find out more details then decide. You lose nothing anyway. But make sure you don't go too deep before you're sure.

Answer 10

I would continue to date her, but the future probably won't be so good. Guys are just like girls, we enjoy the immediate trill, but when it comes to settle down, it'll be with the girl next door

Answer 11

Definately!
Sometimes the connection is just there(pardon the pun), and it happens. I see nothing wrong with it as long as protection is used and it's agreeable to both people involved.
Do what makes you feel good!