He used to hurt me, so I broke up with him. Now my best friend likes him, and she wont listen to me!!!...He likes her back, and I told him not to ask her out, but that made things worse,. So now its definantly going to happen. What should I do!?
2007-01-25 17:23:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he emotionally hurt you? or physically? Theres a big difference!
Well my answer is to warn her (youve already done that), but after you warn her there isnt much you can do. its her choice, let her make her own mistakes. she'll realize it in the end. The best thing you can do is just be there for her. dont be the one to stand above her and have your arms crossed and nose in the air saying "see, i told you so!". Just be the bestfriend you can be and stand by her side- and support her no matter what. youve already warned her so thats it! Good luck xoxo
2007-01-25 17:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do now, you've already tried to warn your friend about it. Now all you can do is let fate happen as it will. Best not to get involved now, you'll only likely ruin your friendship with her if you try to interefere anymore.
I went through a similar situation and I tried to interfere...it didn't do much. Only turned into a screaming match with my friend.
I know it sucks though when your best friend won't listen to you. Just let it be girl, you have done everything you can. Your best friend will come around eventually and it could be worse. Atleast you warned her and that's what friends do. Don't worry about it too much. The only thing you are at fault for is being a great best friend...
I also know from expirience what happens to the friend who doesn't listen in majority of these cases.
There have been times when I didn't listen to my friends too, and 85% of the time I had to own up to it in the end.
It'll all be ok.... :)
2007-01-26 02:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Smart_Gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a thing. Your bf is kinda wrong for dating him after you but, whatever. Let her find out on her own and don't get in the middle.
2007-01-26 01:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your friend won't listen to you Shes just gonna have to find out the hard way. it's sad but it the only way.
2007-01-26 01:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should sit your friend down and pour out your heart maybe even cry so she knows your not faking tell her everything and if she doesn't listen she'll have to find out for herself
2007-01-26 01:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant do anything im sorry to say but sometime you just
need to step back. and let them see for them self what the
deal you have tried to tell her as a friiend but that all you can
do. but trust me she will need you as a friend if he has
not changed his behavior.
2007-01-26 01:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know how hard-headed girls are just let her figure it out herself. if he is mean to her you cant be to blame because you warned her
2007-01-26 01:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by vhaywood2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm u should tell someone how u feel like ur friend or him
2007-01-26 01:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by hot_noe_1235 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him hurt her like he hurt you.
stupid ***** doesn't want to listen to you....
2007-01-28 20:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by Just Me. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her find out how he is and everthing on the other hand.........hit me up =)
2007-01-26 01:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by david g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋