He loves me back, but I can't stop thinking about him no matter what I DO. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I feel like I am going crazy when I can't be with him, I can't get enough of him. I even asked for a shirt with his cologne on it for when he's not there. I can't think about anything but him. Am I turning into one of those bunny boilers and if so how do I stop.
2007-01-25 17:11:38 · 12 answers · asked by eternalife33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
enjoy it while it lasts coz its not forever these feelings happen`
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2007-01-25 17:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by Vani R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not a bunny boiler just yet but you aren't in real love with him. You're totally infatuated to be honest. That's fine but you are going a bit overboard. It's ok to be apart. In fact, it's better if you don't spend all your time together. To be in a real realtionship, you need to be a full person. Right now, all you are is his adoring little girlfriend. He's a human and has flaws just like you. You need to find things to do outside of your boyfriend. Anything that doesn't include him and that is healthy & beneficial to you. That way, you can share it with him and grow as a person at the same time. He want you to adore him, not worship him. If you don't ease up a bit, he might get freaked out and take off. Get yourself a life outside of him. It's good for you, him and your relationship.
2007-01-26 01:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are asking the question... then the answer might be yes.
Know that you are probably normal, that there is a time for most of us that we are pretty twitterpated about our new love, especially if the chemistry is really great... but if it is keeping you from being responsible... keeping you from your other friends and family entirely... and lasting so long that you wonder if you will ever be "normal" again, then you might have an abnormal situation.
Most of us don't keep up this level of complete obsession for more than a four month period... after that time, it should settling into something less intense but definitely pleasant.
Congratulations! It's a great experience.
2007-01-26 01:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by snickersmommie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what a bunny boiler is...but I can take a guess...
Time might help the 'obsession'...living together will certainly will...You're just in the first stages of 'love'....it'll stay that way for a long time and you'll get married....or it will burn itself out very quickly...
2007-01-26 01:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Chrys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with how you are feeling. It's natural. You're in love with him. Enjoy it! That's what love does to you........can't eat, sleep or do anything without thinking about him every second of the day.
2007-01-26 01:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by artutina 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you are mentally healthy and in very deep love. And if he gives that back to you then all I can say is GET MARRIED.
In the meantime though, try to chill. Love makes it difficult and there is nothing anyone can say to stop you from thinking what you're going to think in your state of heart and mind. Just enjoy it.
2007-01-26 01:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to think about someone you love all the time but when you can't do anything else but that then theres a problem that you need to fix.
2007-01-26 01:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by Waythere 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl you need to slow down and take one day at a time. You can chase him away with some of the things you are doing, relax and go with the flow but, also you can make your self sick and this is not a joke. please slow down you have a bad obssession and it is not good for your health.
2007-01-26 01:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by smoovdelite 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow your really feeling head over heals for this guy. u need to cool it though he might get creeped out and tell u to stay away
try to limit your self to calling him ONCE every 3-4 days and not always asking to hang out or something u know try to fight the cravings to see him
2007-01-26 01:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi
Obviously you love him a lot ,but sometimes you can suffocate them ,I did the same and they will back off .so id get busy if i were you ,and guys are supposed to chase not girls chase the guys ,and if you do that youll keep him ,dont do what i did and i lost my love :(
2007-01-26 01:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by jojo2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find other things to do. its not healthy to be like that. how about taking a class or having a girls night every now and then. surround yourself with different people.
2007-01-26 01:16:16 · answer #11 · answered by anonymous 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋