Okay so heres the thing....I wanted to get to know this guy and so i went on a couple dates with him and he seemed really sweet so we became a couple....well the more i got to know him the more i realized he just wasnt close to my type at all....like nothing about him connected with me anymore so i decided to break it off cuz it just wasnt going to work for me. Well now I see him all the time, and I dont talk to him or look at him or anything just because he was reallly mean to me after the break up happened and to be honest....now i seriously dont care if i ever talk to him again....cuz he's just not the kinda person i want to associate with anymore.....s am i being mean by doing this?....it doesnt seem like he's over me at all.....but im way over him.....am what im doing wrong by not associating with anymore?
2007-01-25 17:09:06 · 10 answers · asked by Bethyboo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who cares if he is over you or not, not your problem...If its over its over, no need for contact.
2007-01-25 17:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't owe him anything. That's HIS problem if he can't get over it. His feelings are hurt and if you talk to him, you'll probably just get him thinking he's got a shot with you again. You did the right thing the first time. Staying with him when the two of you didn't connect wouldn't have been fair. You did and are doing the right thing.
2007-01-26 01:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know how old you are, but I it would assume that you are still in high school. With this assumption I give my answer:
1- Get ready
2- Call him
3- ( since you say you don't like him ) Tell him sorry, but I don't think we should talk anymore
4- Wish him a good life and hang up
THat is not mean. It is strait foward and you both will soon forget about eachother. Not a big deal.
2007-01-26 01:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Nik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely he was mean to you because guys by nature can't take rejection. He didnt know how to deal with it so more than likely he boosted himself up by bringing you down and I'm sure his buddies backed him up (what are friends for right?).
My advice it'll take him time. He's going to eventually get over it and when he does down the road if he has any sense at all he'll realize what he did was immature and apologize. Hopefully you'll recognize when he reaches this point so don't ignore him forever.
2007-01-26 01:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jesse B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are mature and he is not. Congratulations for getting away when you did---and to think he is acting the way he is is proof he wasn't your type and won't be anyone elses either. You do the right thing and ignore him---or say hello and walk by---these are kid problems that build character and integrity and maturity---he will eventually grow up---you just ignore any silly immature stuff. Good luck to you and stand tall
2007-01-26 01:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. You are in the clear. You just have to remember that everybody grows up at a diffrent age. You sound like a responsible person. Don't let his behavior detour you, keep up the good work. :)
2007-01-26 01:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm... I'm sorry but it seems like you aren't over him. Because you posted a question about him. Ok so in your situation I wouldn't talk to him do any thing to him. Then if you happen to have friends that are friends with him then you ask him/her to ask if he is over you. Then when they say yes I'd give a note and tell him to get over me and if he doesn't I'm still not going to go back with him. If he said no then i'd just relax and forget about him. Hope it works Good Luck! = )
2007-01-26 01:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what every the reason that you broke up with him,you have the
right to feel how ever you want. if you are not rude to him then
just keep it simple and then go from there. he may not be over
you but you can be nice to him. and keep it real.
2007-01-26 01:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with you not associating him thats just what you chose he has to deal with it he messed up
2007-01-26 01:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by david g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the right not to talk to him. if he isn't over it then thats his problem not yours.
2007-01-26 01:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by Waythere 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋