recently the guy i've liked for over half a yr started goin out...and he finally kissed me...
but i dunno if he likes me or just did it coz it was spur of the moment...
he's a very shy guy...
but i feel i care about him way more than he cares bout me...im alwayz the one msgin him first, askin him out first...because i wasnt with him and wanted to be with him...now that he's kissed me...should i wait for him to ask me out next time?
im not sure yet how he really feels...is it wise to not msg him too much and say i miss him...until he msg me first? should i not act to available all the time? and because i like him a lot..its hard to hide my feelings for him...would he like me less if i show that i care about him a lot?
2007-01-25 16:52:20 · 7 answers · asked by Forever happy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just take it easy. Don't make too much out of it. Take a yoga class and feel centered and focus on enjoying your life and making yourself strong and healthy.
If you make too many moves too fast you may scare him away. Just see what he does. Good luck.
2007-01-25 16:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by kindness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know, at first glance it sounds like you're pretty young. So that may effect things. The boy that's in question seems rather interesting and it's kind of hard for me to say much of anything without knowing him. I would talk to him about it. I know often times I've felt "Well, if she won't call me I guess that means she doesn't want to talk." But you can't exactly go by that. A relationship is all about give and take. You're there for each other and I don't believe one person should be the sole-contributer, otherwise it becomes too one-sided.
2007-01-26 01:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by Corey C. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you said he's a shy guy so you might have to be the more aggressive one. I've dated some shy nice guys before and it's frustrating but yeah try to let him know you like him but also don't msg or call him alot of times. Definitely DO NOT just come out and say how you miss him.
2007-01-26 00:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by bunnychica1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best you don't act too available.And, I agree, it's a guy's job to ask a girl out first. After all, he knows you miss him. That thought probably satisfies him. But it's best if you slowly start decreasing the number of messages you send him and wait for him to send you messages and call you. After all, how can he miss you if you keep messaging him?
2007-01-26 01:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Jana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with your intuition. It's great to let someone know that you care but don't go overboard.. let him do some of the chasing. You already know the answer.. take a chill.. he'll pick up where you left off if he really wants to.
2007-01-26 00:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe to help him out, just message him that you miss him... Other then that don't ask him out, cuz its a man's job to ask.... Just give him hints you're interested in him... good luck
2007-01-26 00:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U wait for his move.
2007-01-26 03:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋