how to attract a guy in a club?

Question

i am going clubbing this week end and i want to dance with guys.
what can i do to attract their attention?
only proper answers pls..

what sld i do and what sld i wear?

Answer 1

This is what I do at school dances. I'm not sure if clubbing is the same thing, but it might help. Don't dress slutty, but make yourself look hot. Seem available, but not desperate. I think you should go with a few friends. When you get there, scan for a guy you might be interested in. Dance with your friends first so you can show yourself off for a few minutes. Then when you're taking a break, look at him, and when he looks back, flash him a smile. If he smiles back, that's a good sign. Keep off dropping off hints, but still have fun. You don't want to spend the whole night trying to find a guy. Separate yourself from your friends for a few minutes so he can approach you. If he didn't pick up on your hints, or he still doesn't want to go over to you, you go over to him. Make sure he's available too. Just be nice, and introduce yourself. If he seems interested, then you can start flirting with him and acting sexy. Who knows? There might be a connection. Dance with a few guys, but don't get yourself carried away. Dancing with every guy in the club is just slutty.

Answer 2

Hmm.. Be attractive is fine but don't be desperate. You gotta get them desperate for you. Don't have to do any special tricks to get attention. Enjoy yourself with your friends, small cute gestures count. Make sure you look good that day of course. I believe it's cute and attractive of a girl to be able to be herself in the club. I mean dancing (naturally), smiling (with confidence) and of course the way the girl treats people around her is very important also. You can emphasize make-up on eyes and lips. Do all you can to make sure you look gorgeous and then just be yourself in the club. They'll come. Don't over do on clothing, I mean, keep yourself 'comfortable', don't look cheap. Same goes with other aspects.

Answer 3

Smile, look cute (sexy but classy clothes), make eye contact, wink at them from across the room, look right at them, check their body out, and also maybe buy them a drink. If they refuse the drink, then they are not interested. If they are interested they will come over and/or buy you a drink. If they take the drink and do nothing, they might think that someone else sent it, or they are just plain greedy and want the drink. If that is the case, you don't want that guy anyway.

Answer 4

There are a few things:
Look good
Look available
Look interested
Look at guys you want to dance with (eye contact is really good)
Also dancing on the floor will usually bring some guys up to dance with you.

Answer 5

first of all, most guys will dance with a girl that's 'shakin it.' the question is: what kind of guy are you looking for? if you just want to dance, walk right up to a single dancing dude on the dance floor and he will respond... as far as attracting attention, you can do the usual: short skirt, flirty moves, buy a drink, etc. it's all up to you, girl just be careful

Answer 6

Wear a red Blouse..that color is eye ketching... and a smile.
Best way to get attention is smile an look him in eyes and say hi my name is..... I have been there..
Live life ..have fun..be a bit bold dress like a lady..so you Will attract and GOOD Man if that is how you LOOK..femine and cute.

I am a mature women..

Answer 7

First off... be your absolute fabulous self and be confident. Confidence is sexy. Whatever your best features... play them up. And if you are just going to dance then you have nothing to lose by asking them to dance with you. Now I know... that old rejection monster will raise his ugly head or at least the fear that he will... but press ahead. Accept that a few may turn you down.... but stay confidently sexy... you'll have takers.

Answer 8

I'd say be yourself. Don't ever try to be someone you are not. If someone wants to dance, they'll let you know. Sometimes you can start dancing and there will just be people that will come up and dance with you.

Answer 9

look at a guy. When he looks back, quickly look down. Smile kindof embarrassed. Go on with what your doing. Look at him again. When he sees you look down again. and smile flattered or something like that. If he is interested he will come over shortly after the second look.

Answer 10

get in the guy's "area" - as far as eye contact - get his attention by flashing those "i'm hot - i'm a good girl but you know i'm bad tonight" - kinda smiles and show confidence and dance with your girls - Ooo and dress HOT (not slutty...just hot) ;) Make it known that you're getting his attention and i'm sure he will come over and make a move on you :)