My ex girlfriend who dumped me 3 years ago, called me after 3 years and wants to visit my country in a few months, we talked over the phone a few times but she stopped calling me, after 2 weeks that we hadn't talk I logged into my yahoo messenger and let her see me and in an hour she called me just to say hi! I was lukewarm to her, so I called her again yesterday but she didn't answer the phone. I love her, I want to be friend with her and talk to her sometimes but I don't want to be rejected after that I've been this patience to wait this long. Do you think she wants to be with me too? and what should I do? how can I play it cool?
2007-01-25 16:41:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you should move on. Time to make new friends. Sounds like your ex is putting you on an emotional roller coaster ride.
It can be scary to go out and meet new friends. It helps you to keep growing if you do things that scare you and helps build confidence to. Good luck!
2007-01-25 16:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by kindness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her she may go for it if its easier tell her over the phone thats better than her coming here with the wrong impression and then it going bad
2007-01-26 00:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Leveler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would continue to talk to her, but only on her terms. Try to be a friend to her as best as possible. Maybe she needs someone to talk to. Just be there for her. Who knows what will happen if you are someone she can turn to. You say you still love her. Show her that you do by being that friend for her.
2007-02-02 17:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by Soccer Taz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No she doesn't want to be with you. shes just interestedin coming ot visit the country that is all i can see. shes made it plain with her actions. if i were you I would just put her on perm. hold and not speak any more shes done for you as romatically.
2007-02-02 21:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get over her. I think she just wants to use you for the time she comes and visits. be careful, very careful.
2007-02-02 20:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by senoritadelgado@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you may still be in love but your ex is just curious.
2007-01-26 00:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't act like you wanna get back together, she's just playing with you.
2007-02-02 22:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by kk~jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋