Guys are always asking me out, most of them 18-24 and I'm under age (which they don't always know at the time). How can I get them to stop flirtting with me and asking me out, besides making myself un-attractive. on, and I have tried telling them right off the bat my age or that I'm going out with someone else.
2007-01-25 16:37:07 · 39 answers · asked by Meghan H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont dress like a "hoochie" or in tight clothing, just like a normal teen... Like all my friends... Also Some of the guys I know and some I don't. Random guys will walk up to me in the mall and ask me out.
2007-01-25 16:45:37 · update #1
Thanks for your in-put everyone, and again I don't wear ranchy hooker clothes, just normal clothes. I live in NY so I'm constantly wearing sweatshirts and stuff like that, It's cold here.
2007-01-25 16:54:21 · update #2
PLEASE would you people who don't even know me stop calling me "hoochie" that's just rude and disrespectful. Normaly I wear loose fitting jeans (tight ones are way to uncomfortable) a t-shirt and a sweatshirt. I don't go out in mini-skirts and tube tops, right now it's 1*F outside.
2007-01-25 16:58:14 · update #3
Oh, and if you left a sincer reply thank you!!! girls/women who have experienced his before know that it gets annoying.
Also because of my sister (19) I meet older guys. Also I love art and am always going to art gallaries so I meet a lot of older guys/girls who are artists from S.U..
2007-01-25 17:02:28 · update #4
Thanks to all!!!
2007-01-25 17:11:18 · update #5
1.) wear a shirt that says "I'm not legal"
or
2.) wear a shirt that says "AIDS survivor"
either way should work lol for real tho just ignore them
2007-01-25 16:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Wills 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You know the answer of your question but I'm gonna tell you myself.Try looking and acting like 16.Don't give them a reason to approach you.Don't hang out around 24 year olds if you don't want them to ask you out.And what do you mean by"making myself attractive"?Looking like hoochy mama is not attractive at all.Almost all the 16 year olds dress very badly.Just like a street walker.Come on,consentrate on your education and have respect for yourself.
2007-01-25 16:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by avavu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them you are not interested or that you are already taken. You accomplish two things with this response. One, you let them down easy and two, by rejecting them they can go on to the next person to ask out.
You are being admirable for turning down the older guys because they could get into some legal trouble trying to get with you. You also should be flattered and honored that you are appealling and attractive to others.
2007-01-25 16:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing already. Keep telling them no and that you are involved already. You should not have to make yourself unattractive. I am assuming that you might look older for your age, some people are just that way. Keep doing what you are already doing. There is not a good way to get them to stop, guys at especially a young age are " driven by hormones " to pursue. Good Luck.
2007-01-25 16:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someday this might be a good thing, but right now, I don't think its a good thing. You probably seem really mature to them and older looking, or maybe they're just creeps. Either way, don't flirt back, let them know with body language that you're not interested, and flirt with some guys your age.
Oh, and there is a rejection hotline if you want to try it.
2007-01-25 16:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by the_blue_violinist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I think you might act like an adult which is a very good thing but you should try to act like 16 years old. I mean I know that you are a good girl sorts but try to be a little teenagish (i know that's not a word) and dress up like a regular teenager so that you dont give an impression of an adult. The best way is to tell them to leave you alone and this one is kind of bad suggestion but you could also try being a little annoying to older guys and act childish.
Hope something works for you!
2007-01-25 16:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by miss_magic047 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If you tell them your age and they still keep hittin on you then get someone to help you A father or man in your life. They are sick if they are hitting on a girl under age.
Once you get older you will like the attention. For now just keep telling them NO
2007-01-25 16:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just try to keep your cool, I know it's hard and everything, but you'll get through it. You should keep telling them to stop and fighting for yourself, don't give in to them whatever you do. Good luck, and be strong willed =^.^= I know you can show them that you're not just a toy. Hope I helped =^.^=
2007-01-25 16:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by gwenieviere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem when I was your age too. I never dated any guys much older than me and I didn't give them the time of day. Don't believe the "But you don't look or act 16" crap. Let them know you are not into guys so much older and don't oay them any attention.
2007-01-25 16:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats the way life goes for women. It probably wont stop so just keep saying no & that your under aged
2007-01-25 16:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be flattered, but tell them you are not available until the date and year of your 18th birthday. They will still flirt with you because they like you and I have this idea that you are very good looking,
2007-01-25 16:45:46 · answer #11 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋