Okay this female friend of mine,she was attacked by her father twice,so she needed to stay at my house, she lives here daily now, and she took him to court and all that. Now she's here,she gets cold and wants me to warm her up by laying with her, but then I get too touchy, probably because 1. her body is pressing up against mine and it's making me horny as hell, 2. I can't have sex with anyone else because she's always home,and I can't masturbate either because she's always there,and after all that time I can't take it anymore(I don't want to hear none of that "well I don't need to have any sexual activity" well I do)since I'm only 18 and still live with my mom she's home when my friend isn't,and if it isn't my mom it's my best friend which he is always over.Okay, now she's going out right now with some guy.Oh, so it's okay for her to have sex and not me? Everytime I take a woman home to have sex either my best friend or my mother walk in on me, I can't get out of the house.I'm pissed.
2007-01-25 16:26:02 · 12 answers · asked by michael d 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We've had sex before, but we were drunk. So it's not like we are uncomfortable around eachother getting a little physical.
2007-01-25 16:26:56 · update #1
I'm going through alot myself, not just her, she seems to be the one that has it easy actually, she only has a few hours of school each day, and I have to wake up early to spend 8 hours at school, not only that but I have to ****** deal with my mother, these bastards at school, and I'm trying to get a job for this time of year (already have one for all of summer) I have to deal with my best friend which is really stressful in itself. I don't get anytime alone damnit.
2007-01-25 16:36:41 · update #2
well that really sucks! its onley worng to be so touchy if she don't want it. other wise i don't see a problem. plan b go rent a hotel room when u want to have sex with some
2007-01-25 16:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) tell her it is NOT COOL to want to cuddle or warm up when she knows you want sex. it is RUDE!
2) Don't be so selfish. If you are a good host you will care about her needs when it comes to a place to stay and stuff.
3) Bathroom. Turn on the water. Self gratify.
4) dont be such a whiner about sex
I did not have sex til I was 23. I am glad I waited. Yeah, sex is fun. but is fun to knock someone up? grow up a little.
sex is not a bodily need like whacking off. it is privilege and should mean something.
so, she should be a better guest. you should be a better host who does it in the bathroom.
and she sounds promisoucous. if she has such a crappy relationship with her dad she is probably a bit messed up in the relationship/sex area. she should be getting therapy, not nailed.
2007-01-25 16:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by KelticPete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to chill out your hormones for a minute and understand what's going on with your girl friend... first of all, you're able to masturbate at any time so quit b.s.-ing: in the shower, for example. your girl friend may try to get through this situation by being with other men, so YES she can have sex with other men if she feels she's ready. if it's a problem for you (which it seems to be) you should simply not sleep in the same bed as her since this seems to be confusing the issue and YOU. tell your male friend not to come over if you need time to yourself, OR if you are trying to get intimate with another woman at your mom's place and it's not working, just go to HER house to do the deed. there is always a way to 'get out of your house.' stop making excuses and do what is best for everyone involved...
2007-01-25 16:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for u for helping her- but brother KICK her out of ur bed &give her extra blankets!! Tell her straight:" look i respect u as my friend but u making as horny as hell when i lie with u!!!"
So when u get touchy-what does she do?
Im female but i get ur point: either u get a female, don't care if even the president walks in on u or lock urself in the bathroom to masterbate. A edgy guy is not a happy one!!!
2007-01-25 16:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to be less touchy and see if it helps, but it probably will not help. As long as she is sleeping next to you, you will probably feel this way. Ask your best friend to leave for awhile so you can be with your friend like that if you need to. Make some time.
2007-01-25 16:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wrong to feel as you do, but you 18, so you will be
able to have some one over, but it sound like you need to
talk to everyone and see how you can get some space, as for
our best friend, tell him to give you the space you need as for
the female friend tell her it time for her to get her own place
it too much traffic in this house. you were a good friend to let
her stay with you.but it time to let go.
2007-01-25 16:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, so your friend is now dating someone else. so you need another girl but when you and a diff girl wanna have sex then go to her house. or if that isnt possible... do it in your car.... that's always fun.
about you being too touchy... most girls tend to get embarrassed when sutff like that goes down; they dont know how to react and they get mad. taking your situation into consideration you are not being too touchy. you just need to get laid.
2007-01-25 16:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by ashes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't charge someone sex for a place to stay. Your house just might not be the best place for her.
18 and "we were drunk" huh...
2007-01-25 16:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by brothergoosetg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like she's going through a lot right now and you should try to help her now by being there as a friend and not being so selfish right now.
2007-01-25 16:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by Nette 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
um, she asks you to cuddle with her at night and she has a boyfriend? sounds like a sloot to me, so give it to her, she won't say no.
2007-01-25 16:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋