I am a confident, pretty, nice, and funny person. I am 19 and have had 3 boyfriends in my lifetime. I have many friends and i am very content with my life. The only thing is I am VERY, VERY shy around guys I really really like. No one knows this except my close friends. But when it comes to guys I'm VERY shy. So anyway, the guy I really like is a junior in college and recently got out of a "serious" relationship. I am a freshman in college. I have not ever him. My friends are not friends with his friends. Anyway, I just don't know what to do. I really like him, even though we've never met once. It's weird. What should I do to get his attention?
2007-01-25 16:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by srs8706 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! I've felt the same way to! And you know what did I do?? I walked pass him and gave him the cutest smile I have and then you have to let him look at you, after that blink your eyes slowly and just walked away! I bet you anything he'll be curious and want to know you better. do that again 2 or 3 times , well without the blinking is okay! Good luck!!
2007-01-25 16:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Katrin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to get yourself in the same place at the same time. Just be around him.That alone will let him know something is up. Then ,if he doesn't talk to you.YOU are going to have to be the one to break the ice.
Don't be afraid,the worst he can do is to tell you he's not interested.At that point ,you just go find a guy who wants you.
2007-01-26 00:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should get your friends to come along with you, and when you see him with his friends go up to him. Say something like, "Hey, we're going (somewhere) and we need some guys to go with us." Just ask them if they want to go. If you go later on at night tell them you're scared to go at night by yourself.
You could see if he has a facebook and just start a conversation with him. Just say anything. Ask him a question or something. Then you'll start talking and then eventually you can ask him to meet you somewhere. This works also. Good Luck!
2007-01-26 00:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lynze B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably ask yourself, "Gee, how can I really really like this guy if I've never met him?" And your answer will be. "I don't really really like him, I'm just physcially attracted to him." And then you'll find a way to meet him to find out if you'd like to get to know him and then find out if you could like him enough to act on your physical attraction. If you just want to have sex with him, then just write him a note and ask him if he'd consider having sex with someone he's never met, and then leave a photo of yourself and the note taped to his windshield.
2007-01-26 00:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by theobviousanswerman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he's walking near u..bump into him and be like o sryy ..and then introduce urself or somthing..or u could go up to him and hand him some fliers or osmthin lol..or u couldd go up to him and talk 2 him..or u could smile at him and if he smiles back ..like a flirty smile ..if he doesnt come 2 u go to him. And then jus talk bout w/e comes 2 mind..maybe its his clothes..or how uve been wantin 2 talk 2 him..or nething.
2007-01-26 00:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by ayounglady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he would like to study sometime together, or meet in the library. This worked for me once, and I would like to pass it on to you. Good luck!
2007-01-26 00:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think 'ballsy' guys like girls that'll make an effort to go up and talk to them. i know it's hard... but dont think about it, just go up and say hi. and if he starts looking at you really weird then just say that you thought he was someone else. good luck.
2007-01-26 00:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by ashes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your friends help u introduce yourself to the guy. good luck
2007-01-26 00:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
slowly close on him and u'll jus come to noe when to break da ice
2007-01-26 00:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try going up to him and introducing yourself first
2007-01-26 00:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by mr gifted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋